Obviously I mean someone other than your husband. Which do you tend to find to be hotter, married guys, single guys, or is there no difference?
Please be honest. Crushes are just crushes and nothing to hide or be ashamed of, even if you're married.Married women, when you have a harmless crush, is it more likely to be on a single or married man?
I have noticed it's married men. I think because the women can relate they are married the women is married. If something were to happen they wouldn't really have to worry about eachother being obsessed or anything. And you want what you can't have.Married women, when you have a harmless crush, is it more likely to be on a single or married man?
I've had crushes on other guys. They've all been single. Never went anywhere. Harmless. Even if he told me he had a crush on me. I'd say that's nice. I love my husband. He trusts me and I trust him. My husband and I have even talked about it in the past. He has had crushes as well. I think it is healthy to communicate and have trust.
I do not believe that crushes are harmless. Sorry.
Anytime you are thinking about a man other than your husband, it is wrong and you have to be careful. A lot of affairs start this way.
I guess I am old fashioned but i have also been there and I know how NOT harmless they can be.
NO DIFFERENCE
RIGHT NOTW ITS A MARRIED MAN..I WOULD NEVER DO ANYTHING...BUT I DO LIKE TO SNEAK A OCCASIONAL GLANCE
I SEE HIM 3-4 TIMES A YEAR AT CHURCH FUNCTIONS/SPORTS GAMES
honestly i wouldn't know if they are married or single, because i never take it any further than just catching a quick glance. I wouldn't even call it a crush.... I only have eyes for my handsome husband!
doesn't matter, if he's cute he's cute!
married man and his name starts with M
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Is forming an emotional bond with someone else while married cheating?
What do you think? Made me feel guilty.Is forming an emotional bond with someone else while married cheating?
It is cheating, it is just as bad if not worse then having a sexual relationship with someone else. An emotional bond is another far more deeper form of intimacy that should be cherished and shared only with your spouse. If you turned the situation around on yourself, how would you feel about it? I mean really put yourself in the other persons shoes and think about it.Is forming an emotional bond with someone else while married cheating?
i've been into this situation before and i really regretted it. so, it's better for you to stop immediately before u start losing everything like i am right now. u will never know as it hasn't happen to you yet. my advice, stop any bond with the opposite sex n sit down n have a talk wit yr spouse
SERIOUSLY. Emotional affairs can be MORE damaging than physical ones. PLEASE end it now if it's still going on. I wrecked a five-year relationship with someone I truly cared about and had a son with just because I thought it was innocent until it was too late.
My husband started an ';emotional affair'; with my best friend almost 4 years ago. When I repeaditly told him to stop, he would not...to make a long story short, we have been divorced for 2 years and he is now married to my EX- best friend.
I am now in an almost two year relationship and love my boyfriend very much, but am starting to have an ';emotional affair'; with my newly divorced ex-boyfriend (who I don't think I ever stopped loving). I know I am not married, but am I any better than my exes?
You can't help who you find an emotional bond with. It is just there. If you are unhappy with your marriage talk about it with your spouse and tell them about this other person. Let them know that you WANT to work on your marriage. If you feel that your unhappy with your spouse and you feel that you CANNOT change your relationship for the better then speak with him/her and tell her what you are feeling. If you are considering divorce then let them know. Now, not telling someone about his other person would be considered cheating and inconsiderate. Do what you feel would be in the best interest of you AND your spouse. Good Luck!
It all depends on your definition of an ';Emotional bond';.
If you want to sleep with your other other or get more intimate, then it's a good idea to back off.
-OR-
If you're maintaining a friendly distance with a reasonable minimum of romance, even then you're still in the clear.
I have a similar version of this in my love life. The ONLY difference is that I'm not married. So I know a thing or two about this.
you mean with somebody of different gender right,WHY do you feel the need to BOND with this third person,seems to me you cant with hubby.When you are sure you didnt do anything wrong then why feel guilty or do you WANT it to take it further then you should.Bottomline is this person worth it to possible ruin your marriage
For someone to say it's worse than sex is dumb. sometimes you can't help the way you feel. it becomes a problem when you tempt yourself and act on these emotions. everyone gets tempted, but if you prevail then you should be proud of yourself and for you simply feeling gulity (pending that you hadn't acted on these emotions) then you should give yourself a pat on the back.
Have feelings for another while you're currently married is fine. However, acting on those feelings is not. Perhaps you should question your marriage. Are you seeking out emotional bonds with other males because you are unhappy with your husband?
Absolutely it is. If you can't do it, say it and share your feelings with your spouse about it, it's cheating.
Consider how you would feel if you found out your spouse had an emotional bond with someone else. Would that be considered cheating in your heart?
Yes it is cheating, it's called emotional cheating. Believe me if the other two people in this relationship found out they'd be hurt and angry. You need to find someone else to talk to end the relationship.
It is called an emotional affair. Most affairs start out this way. Technically, you are not cheating, just working your way up to it.
if its of the opposite sex or same for that fact yes. when your married you can enjoy friends that's all it can be or it's cheating
The advice I have to give u on this is: Watch your thoughts, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your character.
well lust is cheating if you see this person as you would your wife then that is cheating lusting in the heart. so yes you are a cheater.
Of course it is. Even worse than casual sex.
It sure is!
no.
but if you have had sex or you guys are going to have sex...then yes.
It is cheating, it is just as bad if not worse then having a sexual relationship with someone else. An emotional bond is another far more deeper form of intimacy that should be cherished and shared only with your spouse. If you turned the situation around on yourself, how would you feel about it? I mean really put yourself in the other persons shoes and think about it.Is forming an emotional bond with someone else while married cheating?
i've been into this situation before and i really regretted it. so, it's better for you to stop immediately before u start losing everything like i am right now. u will never know as it hasn't happen to you yet. my advice, stop any bond with the opposite sex n sit down n have a talk wit yr spouse
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SERIOUSLY. Emotional affairs can be MORE damaging than physical ones. PLEASE end it now if it's still going on. I wrecked a five-year relationship with someone I truly cared about and had a son with just because I thought it was innocent until it was too late.
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My husband started an ';emotional affair'; with my best friend almost 4 years ago. When I repeaditly told him to stop, he would not...to make a long story short, we have been divorced for 2 years and he is now married to my EX- best friend.
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I am now in an almost two year relationship and love my boyfriend very much, but am starting to have an ';emotional affair'; with my newly divorced ex-boyfriend (who I don't think I ever stopped loving). I know I am not married, but am I any better than my exes?
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You can't help who you find an emotional bond with. It is just there. If you are unhappy with your marriage talk about it with your spouse and tell them about this other person. Let them know that you WANT to work on your marriage. If you feel that your unhappy with your spouse and you feel that you CANNOT change your relationship for the better then speak with him/her and tell her what you are feeling. If you are considering divorce then let them know. Now, not telling someone about his other person would be considered cheating and inconsiderate. Do what you feel would be in the best interest of you AND your spouse. Good Luck!
It all depends on your definition of an ';Emotional bond';.
If you want to sleep with your other other or get more intimate, then it's a good idea to back off.
-OR-
If you're maintaining a friendly distance with a reasonable minimum of romance, even then you're still in the clear.
I have a similar version of this in my love life. The ONLY difference is that I'm not married. So I know a thing or two about this.
you mean with somebody of different gender right,WHY do you feel the need to BOND with this third person,seems to me you cant with hubby.When you are sure you didnt do anything wrong then why feel guilty or do you WANT it to take it further then you should.Bottomline is this person worth it to possible ruin your marriage
For someone to say it's worse than sex is dumb. sometimes you can't help the way you feel. it becomes a problem when you tempt yourself and act on these emotions. everyone gets tempted, but if you prevail then you should be proud of yourself and for you simply feeling gulity (pending that you hadn't acted on these emotions) then you should give yourself a pat on the back.
Have feelings for another while you're currently married is fine. However, acting on those feelings is not. Perhaps you should question your marriage. Are you seeking out emotional bonds with other males because you are unhappy with your husband?
Absolutely it is. If you can't do it, say it and share your feelings with your spouse about it, it's cheating.
Consider how you would feel if you found out your spouse had an emotional bond with someone else. Would that be considered cheating in your heart?
Yes it is cheating, it's called emotional cheating. Believe me if the other two people in this relationship found out they'd be hurt and angry. You need to find someone else to talk to end the relationship.
It is called an emotional affair. Most affairs start out this way. Technically, you are not cheating, just working your way up to it.
if its of the opposite sex or same for that fact yes. when your married you can enjoy friends that's all it can be or it's cheating
The advice I have to give u on this is: Watch your thoughts, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your character.
well lust is cheating if you see this person as you would your wife then that is cheating lusting in the heart. so yes you are a cheater.
Of course it is. Even worse than casual sex.
It sure is!
no.
but if you have had sex or you guys are going to have sex...then yes.
Will getting married in December cause me to lose my tax return if my fiance makes a lot?
My fiance makes 60K+ a year. Will that cause me to lose my tax return, filing separately OR together?Will getting married in December cause me to lose my tax return if my fiance makes a lot?
Yes he will!
Also if he has bad credit it will go on you or vice versa!
File separately!Will getting married in December cause me to lose my tax return if my fiance makes a lot?
Yes, you will lose it unless you file seperately. What matters most is the date you are married. If possible, get married in Jan. and save yourself the trouble. And, if you have kids, getting married will have a penalty. You will lose EIC regardless of how you file, seperately or together, and if you claim head of household your withholding for that will go down as well.
If your fiance makes considerably more money than you she is taxed at a higher marginal rate on the last dollar. By filing a joint return, you will dilute her high tax income with your low tax income resulting in a lower overall tax bill for you as a couple. Look at the tax liability and ignore the refund. Refunds are just what you overpaid.
If you have children and your income is $35K or less, your refund may be less if you marry. However, your fiance may benefit from a joint return, especially if you have children.
You and he may want to do your returns now to see the tax impact of getting married before the end of the year.
It could, but not necessarily - it depends on circumstances you don't state in your question.
If for example, you have been getting EIC, you won't be eligible any more for that, whether you file separately or a joint return.
And by the way, it's a reFUND, not a reTURN.lips
Yes he will!
Also if he has bad credit it will go on you or vice versa!
File separately!Will getting married in December cause me to lose my tax return if my fiance makes a lot?
Yes, you will lose it unless you file seperately. What matters most is the date you are married. If possible, get married in Jan. and save yourself the trouble. And, if you have kids, getting married will have a penalty. You will lose EIC regardless of how you file, seperately or together, and if you claim head of household your withholding for that will go down as well.
If your fiance makes considerably more money than you she is taxed at a higher marginal rate on the last dollar. By filing a joint return, you will dilute her high tax income with your low tax income resulting in a lower overall tax bill for you as a couple. Look at the tax liability and ignore the refund. Refunds are just what you overpaid.
If you have children and your income is $35K or less, your refund may be less if you marry. However, your fiance may benefit from a joint return, especially if you have children.
You and he may want to do your returns now to see the tax impact of getting married before the end of the year.
It could, but not necessarily - it depends on circumstances you don't state in your question.
If for example, you have been getting EIC, you won't be eligible any more for that, whether you file separately or a joint return.
And by the way, it's a reFUND, not a reTURN.
So if some gays are already married in CA their Marry Certificates will be made invalid?
See it on the bright side we're preventing that God destroys California like Sodom.So if some gays are already married in CA their Marry Certificates will be made invalid?
Most likely...yes.So if some gays are already married in CA their Marry Certificates will be made invalid?
really?
that is the bright side?
does that mean your side will simply shut up about it if youa re satisfied it is done now?
or will you be back for more, taking more and more rights away from minorities by majority vote, counter to every principle of our government, until we are a theocracy for Christians only?
I don't know about the US but here in the UK it is extremely difficult to make laws retrospective. Even the dept. of transport can't do that.
Most likely...yes.So if some gays are already married in CA their Marry Certificates will be made invalid?
really?
that is the bright side?
does that mean your side will simply shut up about it if youa re satisfied it is done now?
or will you be back for more, taking more and more rights away from minorities by majority vote, counter to every principle of our government, until we are a theocracy for Christians only?
I don't know about the US but here in the UK it is extremely difficult to make laws retrospective. Even the dept. of transport can't do that.
Is ring be the best thing a not yet married couple should have? What would be the advantages if you have one?
My boyfriend and I were planning to have a ring on our 1st anniversary. Would it be a good idea? Or any idea please.. would it strengthenn the commitment that we have??Is ring be the best thing a not yet married couple should have? What would be the advantages if you have one?
My boyfriend and I got rings for our anniversary.
Did it strengthen out commitment? No, our commitment still remains the same, but we did it because it was something that we both felt was a good idea.
My mom also really wanted to see it happen haha :)Is ring be the best thing a not yet married couple should have? What would be the advantages if you have one?
Engagement ring ? well it normally follows a proposal so unless there is a specific reason for not getting one for a whole year then you should get it on the proposal or hold off the proposal for the year until the ring is bought.
Hope that makes sense as I am not sure your question made sense to me, sorry..
My boyfriend and I got rings for our anniversary.
Did it strengthen out commitment? No, our commitment still remains the same, but we did it because it was something that we both felt was a good idea.
My mom also really wanted to see it happen haha :)Is ring be the best thing a not yet married couple should have? What would be the advantages if you have one?
Engagement ring ? well it normally follows a proposal so unless there is a specific reason for not getting one for a whole year then you should get it on the proposal or hold off the proposal for the year until the ring is bought.
Hope that makes sense as I am not sure your question made sense to me, sorry..
Why are married women who already have children allowed to be surrogateS?
in some countries this was kind of a law. WHy do you think this law was madE?
Why are married women who already have children allowed to be surrogateS?
1. It proves you can physically/emotionally/mentally handle childbirth.
2. There's a better chance you will be able to actually give the child up at birth, considering a lot of women without birthing experience don't understand the bond it creates.
3. If you are married you will have a spouse to care for you during the pregnancy.
Hope that helps.Why are married women who already have children allowed to be surrogateS?
I dont fully understand your questions. But in some places, like some states in Australia, surrogacy is not actually legal at all.
But also, I remember hearing that it is better for a woman who has already had her children to be a surrogate, because for women who have not already had children, there are risks during the surrogacy which may later mean that the surrogate may not be able to have her own children. SO for that reason they often go for women who have already had children.
These women already have their own children so there's less likelihood they will want to keep the baby. Also, married women are usually more grounded and therefore more responsible as far as taking care of their bodies and the baby.
And I think married mothers who do it, want to help other women experience the joy of motherhood.
experience counts!
Probably it has to do with money.
Why are married women who already have children allowed to be surrogateS?
1. It proves you can physically/emotionally/mentally handle childbirth.
2. There's a better chance you will be able to actually give the child up at birth, considering a lot of women without birthing experience don't understand the bond it creates.
3. If you are married you will have a spouse to care for you during the pregnancy.
Hope that helps.Why are married women who already have children allowed to be surrogateS?
I dont fully understand your questions. But in some places, like some states in Australia, surrogacy is not actually legal at all.
But also, I remember hearing that it is better for a woman who has already had her children to be a surrogate, because for women who have not already had children, there are risks during the surrogacy which may later mean that the surrogate may not be able to have her own children. SO for that reason they often go for women who have already had children.
These women already have their own children so there's less likelihood they will want to keep the baby. Also, married women are usually more grounded and therefore more responsible as far as taking care of their bodies and the baby.
And I think married mothers who do it, want to help other women experience the joy of motherhood.
experience counts!
Probably it has to do with money.
How to immigrate to the UK being American and married to a UK citizen?
I am married to a UK citizen, I am American we do not have enough money for me to immigrate to the UK, But I have healthcare skills, can anyone tell me how I can apply for a job in the UK..or is their another way I can join my husband..We both have jobs, we just don't make enough.How to immigrate to the UK being American and married to a UK citizen?
if your husbands a citizen (by that im assuming he has an actual britsh citzenship and works full time) then i dont see why you shouldn't be able to immigrate. if you got healthcare skill then the NHS is going to want you. theres a major staff shortage here and ther'e in depserate need for any hospital workers. just dont come here expecting to live of the welfare state. we got enough britsh people doing that already.
if your husbands a citizen (by that im assuming he has an actual britsh citzenship and works full time) then i dont see why you shouldn't be able to immigrate. if you got healthcare skill then the NHS is going to want you. theres a major staff shortage here and ther'e in depserate need for any hospital workers. just dont come here expecting to live of the welfare state. we got enough britsh people doing that already.
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