We want to travel during January 08, leaving from either San Diego, CA , Long Beach, CA or Los Angeles, CA. 7 day mexican riviera. We are trying to avoid a lot of kids.What's the best cruise liner for young married couples?
Most kids are back in school after the first week of January. Try the website vacations to go and click on find a bargain and use the port finder under LA and San Diego. May I suggest Princess.What's the best cruise liner for young married couples?
Hum?? Avoiding the kids at that time of year should be easy as they are back in school. I would go with either Carnival or Royal Caribbean. They have a younger crowd and tend to have very competitive pricing. Check out: http://www.cruisesonly.com/ or http://www.cruise411.com/
Have fun!
this site has good info:
http://allcruiselines.info
I would definitely go on Carnival or Royal Caribbean.... one good thing is that you will be going when its not vacations for kids.....
but i can honestly say that Carnival and RC have the best food the best entertainments and alot of their travelers are young but its not like a spring break chaos where its going to overwhelm you.... its fun and you will have a great time!!!
My fiance and I have been on several and we have enjoyed this 2 cruise lines the most..... we are in our late 20's =0)
i would not recommend holland america alot of older people if you are going in jan i would choose either carnival (most people are late 20-to 30s) or royal caribbean
my hubby and i are young and these are the two that we use
Holland America, very classy .
Saturday, July 31, 2010
What is easier for me to be with my American fiancee? Getting fiance visa or gettiing married to her 1st?
Fiance visas are hard. The stipulations are hard. It is better to get married and follow up with a relative petition.What is easier for me to be with my American fiancee? Getting fiance visa or gettiing married to her 1st?
get marriedWhat is easier for me to be with my American fiancee? Getting fiance visa or gettiing married to her 1st?
marry her. but that is only if the engagment period is not too long like 4-5years
Fiance visa is easier
get marriedWhat is easier for me to be with my American fiancee? Getting fiance visa or gettiing married to her 1st?
marry her. but that is only if the engagment period is not too long like 4-5years
Fiance visa is easier
What funny stitch up's can I do for my best friends who have just got married?
I am going abroad for my best friends wedding and I get back before them. They have given me their house keys to get a couple of bits in and thought I would take advantage and play a couple of silly pranks. Only trouble is, I can't think of any! - any help?? - nothing too nasty!What funny stitch up's can I do for my best friends who have just got married?
play dead on the floorWhat funny stitch up's can I do for my best friends who have just got married?
fill the house with balloons...or paint some bright dots all over the outside....(or stick them on) ...hire a van and move all the front room furniture out... just a few things...... mind you you could paint the grass pink......eye shadow
play dead on the floorWhat funny stitch up's can I do for my best friends who have just got married?
fill the house with balloons...or paint some bright dots all over the outside....(or stick them on) ...hire a van and move all the front room furniture out... just a few things...... mind you you could paint the grass pink......
Getting married here in philippines , do need to perform it to canadian consulate ?
my fiancee is Canadian he will be here on January ,all documents we will need are all complete only confused us is the place where we can be ? please give us some advice and i am one month on the family way , he left last month from a one month vacation here.after the wedding how long i will wait to grant a visa?Getting married here in philippines , do need to perform it to canadian consulate ?
I think you asked this question before. You cannot get married at the Canadian Consulate. Your fiance does need to go to the consulate to get a Certificate of Legal Capacity to Contract Marriage.
While he does that, contact the Local Civil Registrar at city hall from the municipality where you love and find out what documents you need to bring (usually just a proof of age like your birth certificate). Then take the Certificate along with whatever document you need to the Local Civil Registrar at city hall) and apply for a marriage license.
After you get the marriage license, you need to wait 10 days before getting married. You will need to locate a judge, justice of the peace, priest or minister to marry you. If you get married in a church there is additional paperwork and requirements. I think you need 2 witnesses to the ceremony but check with the local registrar.
It takes a while to get a visa if you're granted one at all so be prepared to wait a long time. Your fiance should fill out the paperwork as soon as possible.
I think you asked this question before. You cannot get married at the Canadian Consulate. Your fiance does need to go to the consulate to get a Certificate of Legal Capacity to Contract Marriage.
While he does that, contact the Local Civil Registrar at city hall from the municipality where you love and find out what documents you need to bring (usually just a proof of age like your birth certificate). Then take the Certificate along with whatever document you need to the Local Civil Registrar at city hall) and apply for a marriage license.
After you get the marriage license, you need to wait 10 days before getting married. You will need to locate a judge, justice of the peace, priest or minister to marry you. If you get married in a church there is additional paperwork and requirements. I think you need 2 witnesses to the ceremony but check with the local registrar.
It takes a while to get a visa if you're granted one at all so be prepared to wait a long time. Your fiance should fill out the paperwork as soon as possible.
Why do you think Palin didn't answer the question when asked about her daughter getting married?
The question was asked about the marriage being a political agenda rather than a personal one and if it were still planned and Palin didn't answer it but changed the subject instead. Has Levi flew the coop?Why do you think Palin didn't answer the question when asked about her daughter getting married?
Because it is no one's business.
The Beauty %26amp; Style section of YA really needs someone of your caliber posting over there........I don't think you are well suited for politics.Why do you think Palin didn't answer the question when asked about her daughter getting married?
I think because it is a personal question, and not even her personal question but her daughter's, who is no business of the media (read the Democratic party). It was a thoroughly tasteless and intrusive question aimed at demeaning and discrediting Sarah, and so blatant in its bias, it was shocking. She ought not to have answered it, as indeed she did not. And she was gracious enough not to complain of the toadish reporter who asked it, which I'm pretty sure none of you would have done, had you been in her position.
Get off the subject, already! Or are you afraid she'll be back to make your darlings look like the cheats and liars that they are?
Ever hear the advice 'Sufficient to the day, the troubles thereof'?
Here's what I think: She did not answer the question cause it is nobody's business whether Levi wants to get married or not. The public should leave the poor boy alone and concentrate on more important things. Obviously the boy was conflicted at the beginning, and if he has flown the coop, well no one is putting a shotgun to his head.
Maybe so. How come Obama can answer the question about where his illegal campaign money came from, what is his relationship with William Ayers and Khalidi, why he is promoting socialism, etc. etc. etc. Let's stick to the issues, and Palin is obviously no longer an issue. Quit being so obsessed with her, it's rather odd.
SARAH IS AWESOME!DID YOU KNOW THIS?
Question: What is America's first line of missile interceptor defense that protects the entire United States?
Answer: 49th Missile Defense Battalion of Alaska National Guard.
Question: What is the ONLY National Guard unit on permanent active duty?
Answer: 49th Missile Defense Battalion of Alaska National Guard.
Question: Who is the Commander in Chief of the 49th Missile Defense Battalion of Alaska National Guard?
Answer: Governor Sarah Palin, Alaska.
Question: What U.S. governor is routinely briefed on highly classified military issues, homeland security, and counter terrorism?
Answer: Governor Sarah Palin, Alaska.
Question: What U.S. governor has a higher classified security rating than either candidate of the Democrat Party?
Answer: Governor Sarah Palin, Alaska.
According to the Washington Post, she first met with McCain in February, but nobody ever found out. This is a woman used to keeping secrets. She can be entrusted with our national security, because she already is.
Now you DO know!
maybe because its none of americas business....and she knows that no matter WHAT she said, people wouldnt shut up about her daughter....and i think its awfully funny people critisize her daughter, who is almost 18 so much, like she is the only pregnant teen, when teen pregnancy is at all time highs in america
Her daughter was not running for President.
What happen to her daughter very well could happen to any child at any time.There is no guarantee it will not.So it should not be an issue.
Unless you want to discuss the issue of Williaml Ayers?
At first I thought you were some kind of obsessive nut case like all these others throwing mud at Palin, but then it just occurred to me that you are desperately trying to focus everyones' attention away from the President-elect. Good job!
Where did you see this? I hope to GOD that wedding is off. What a nightmare for that poor girl to be chained to a d-bag who doesn't want kids just because her mother is a high-profile Christian nutjob.
Can't we leave these poor kids alone?!?
She probably didn't answer because she's tired of her family drama being splattered over the tabloids. I would be, too!
I believe her personal life and political life should not coincide.
Well that's not really anyones business but her own.
She shouldn't have to talk about her family like that.
What difference could it possibly make? Is your life going to change somehow if they get married? If they don't? Geez, get a life of your own already!
Maybe it's nobodys business. I really don't care about what goes on outside of running the country. It's like asking Obama if him and his wife have good sex.
The election is over it doesn't matter what Levi does
Maybe they didn't buy enough shells for the shotgun.
It's not the media's business.
Duhr.
She doesnt have to answer.
Nobodies business but hers.
Why should she acknowledge such a hate-full question with an answer?
Because she does not want the world knowing her business.
Maybe she thought it wasn't anyone's business....which it isn't.
Maybe because it is NONE OF OUR BUSINESS.
Oops!
Piper Palin Wears High Heels On ';Today'; Show (VIDEO)
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/11/11鈥?/a>
She was asking the reporter to be quiet so she could hear God talking to her, giving her the answer.
I think she suddenly realized over a v. short space of time that an awful lot of things really weren't up to her, that inc, tough on a rich ex beauty queen who always got her way..
Sarah Palin didn't answer a question? Really?
Because it is no one's business.
The Beauty %26amp; Style section of YA really needs someone of your caliber posting over there........I don't think you are well suited for politics.Why do you think Palin didn't answer the question when asked about her daughter getting married?
I think because it is a personal question, and not even her personal question but her daughter's, who is no business of the media (read the Democratic party). It was a thoroughly tasteless and intrusive question aimed at demeaning and discrediting Sarah, and so blatant in its bias, it was shocking. She ought not to have answered it, as indeed she did not. And she was gracious enough not to complain of the toadish reporter who asked it, which I'm pretty sure none of you would have done, had you been in her position.
Get off the subject, already! Or are you afraid she'll be back to make your darlings look like the cheats and liars that they are?
Ever hear the advice 'Sufficient to the day, the troubles thereof'?
Here's what I think: She did not answer the question cause it is nobody's business whether Levi wants to get married or not. The public should leave the poor boy alone and concentrate on more important things. Obviously the boy was conflicted at the beginning, and if he has flown the coop, well no one is putting a shotgun to his head.
Maybe so. How come Obama can answer the question about where his illegal campaign money came from, what is his relationship with William Ayers and Khalidi, why he is promoting socialism, etc. etc. etc. Let's stick to the issues, and Palin is obviously no longer an issue. Quit being so obsessed with her, it's rather odd.
SARAH IS AWESOME!DID YOU KNOW THIS?
Question: What is America's first line of missile interceptor defense that protects the entire United States?
Answer: 49th Missile Defense Battalion of Alaska National Guard.
Question: What is the ONLY National Guard unit on permanent active duty?
Answer: 49th Missile Defense Battalion of Alaska National Guard.
Question: Who is the Commander in Chief of the 49th Missile Defense Battalion of Alaska National Guard?
Answer: Governor Sarah Palin, Alaska.
Question: What U.S. governor is routinely briefed on highly classified military issues, homeland security, and counter terrorism?
Answer: Governor Sarah Palin, Alaska.
Question: What U.S. governor has a higher classified security rating than either candidate of the Democrat Party?
Answer: Governor Sarah Palin, Alaska.
According to the Washington Post, she first met with McCain in February, but nobody ever found out. This is a woman used to keeping secrets. She can be entrusted with our national security, because she already is.
Now you DO know!
maybe because its none of americas business....and she knows that no matter WHAT she said, people wouldnt shut up about her daughter....and i think its awfully funny people critisize her daughter, who is almost 18 so much, like she is the only pregnant teen, when teen pregnancy is at all time highs in america
Her daughter was not running for President.
What happen to her daughter very well could happen to any child at any time.There is no guarantee it will not.So it should not be an issue.
Unless you want to discuss the issue of Williaml Ayers?
At first I thought you were some kind of obsessive nut case like all these others throwing mud at Palin, but then it just occurred to me that you are desperately trying to focus everyones' attention away from the President-elect. Good job!
Where did you see this? I hope to GOD that wedding is off. What a nightmare for that poor girl to be chained to a d-bag who doesn't want kids just because her mother is a high-profile Christian nutjob.
Can't we leave these poor kids alone?!?
She probably didn't answer because she's tired of her family drama being splattered over the tabloids. I would be, too!
I believe her personal life and political life should not coincide.
Well that's not really anyones business but her own.
She shouldn't have to talk about her family like that.
What difference could it possibly make? Is your life going to change somehow if they get married? If they don't? Geez, get a life of your own already!
Maybe it's nobodys business. I really don't care about what goes on outside of running the country. It's like asking Obama if him and his wife have good sex.
The election is over it doesn't matter what Levi does
Maybe they didn't buy enough shells for the shotgun.
It's not the media's business.
Duhr.
She doesnt have to answer.
Nobodies business but hers.
Why should she acknowledge such a hate-full question with an answer?
Because she does not want the world knowing her business.
Maybe she thought it wasn't anyone's business....which it isn't.
Maybe because it is NONE OF OUR BUSINESS.
Oops!
Piper Palin Wears High Heels On ';Today'; Show (VIDEO)
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/11/11鈥?/a>
She was asking the reporter to be quiet so she could hear God talking to her, giving her the answer.
I think she suddenly realized over a v. short space of time that an awful lot of things really weren't up to her, that inc, tough on a rich ex beauty queen who always got her way..
Sarah Palin didn't answer a question? Really?
For Married Couples:Is it harder to raise your children than you thought?How many were they planned?
much harder and much more wonderful
all were plannedFor Married Couples:Is it harder to raise your children than you thought?How many were they planned?
Raising children is a difficult task, but there are so many rewards, that you can't forget. I love my children to death and I would have no idea what to do without them today. I have two daughters and I'm pregnant with our third child, a boy. All three of our kids were planned and were born when we could support an additional family member.For Married Couples:Is it harder to raise your children than you thought?How many were they planned?
it is hard. they cost a lot and need a lot of attention. i have 2 girls 9 and 2 and they are a handful. but love them to death. and neather of them were planned.
yea, kids are a lot of work and they need alot of attention but I've noticed that a unplanned pregnancy is more likely to happen than planned pregnancies so all those out there wanting a baby...dont plan it!
Way harder than I thought, but a hell of a lot more fun than I thought too. First was planned about 45 minutes in advance and the second too were not planned.
we have 1 , pregnant with second. both were planned. i think its easier than i thought. but i am nervous about #2. it will be a huge adjustment
yes she was a planned baby and we thought we were ready! we were in for a surprise..
and yes it is much much harder than what I thought it would be.. but much more rewarding too..
much harder then planned, money wasn't the issue either. having input from everyone and their mother was. and a lot of criticism from everyone. also having a sister in-law who hides and lies for her nieces. you try to protect them from people who don't know any better but when they are aunts and uncles it's hard. only one of my three was planned. oh, making sure they have good friends is a plus.
its about what i thought it would be.
we've had a monkey wrench thrown in to the mix and our son is having neurosurgery next month, but we're some how surviving.
and yes, he was a very planned baby
no its a little bit easier planned 5 had 3
all were plannedFor Married Couples:Is it harder to raise your children than you thought?How many were they planned?
Raising children is a difficult task, but there are so many rewards, that you can't forget. I love my children to death and I would have no idea what to do without them today. I have two daughters and I'm pregnant with our third child, a boy. All three of our kids were planned and were born when we could support an additional family member.For Married Couples:Is it harder to raise your children than you thought?How many were they planned?
it is hard. they cost a lot and need a lot of attention. i have 2 girls 9 and 2 and they are a handful. but love them to death. and neather of them were planned.
yea, kids are a lot of work and they need alot of attention but I've noticed that a unplanned pregnancy is more likely to happen than planned pregnancies so all those out there wanting a baby...dont plan it!
Way harder than I thought, but a hell of a lot more fun than I thought too. First was planned about 45 minutes in advance and the second too were not planned.
we have 1 , pregnant with second. both were planned. i think its easier than i thought. but i am nervous about #2. it will be a huge adjustment
yes she was a planned baby and we thought we were ready! we were in for a surprise..
and yes it is much much harder than what I thought it would be.. but much more rewarding too..
much harder then planned, money wasn't the issue either. having input from everyone and their mother was. and a lot of criticism from everyone. also having a sister in-law who hides and lies for her nieces. you try to protect them from people who don't know any better but when they are aunts and uncles it's hard. only one of my three was planned. oh, making sure they have good friends is a plus.
its about what i thought it would be.
we've had a monkey wrench thrown in to the mix and our son is having neurosurgery next month, but we're some how surviving.
and yes, he was a very planned baby
no its a little bit easier planned 5 had 3
Getting married in Ravello, Italy and would like to buy wine from there.?
I've tried Majestic, Teso etc but none of them stock wine from the Amalfi Coast. Anyone got any idea's where I can buy wine from Ravello from please?Getting married in Ravello, Italy and would like to buy wine from there.?
look into pojo di lupo or fatagione. congratulation on your marriage. try DEAN AND DELUCA it is a gourmet food and award winning wines. if they don't have wines from Ravello, they can find them. they are on line .good luck again.Getting married in Ravello, Italy and would like to buy wine from there.?
Sorry I can't give you info on the wine, but I went to Sorrento and Ravello for my honeymoon and you will LOVE it. Have a wonderful day and a happy married life.
look into pojo di lupo or fatagione. congratulation on your marriage. try DEAN AND DELUCA it is a gourmet food and award winning wines. if they don't have wines from Ravello, they can find them. they are on line .good luck again.Getting married in Ravello, Italy and would like to buy wine from there.?
Sorry I can't give you info on the wine, but I went to Sorrento and Ravello for my honeymoon and you will LOVE it. Have a wonderful day and a happy married life.
Can married students still be claimed as dependents on their parents' taxes?
I'll be getting married in a year after my first year of law school. Since my parents will be providing funding for my education and some living expenses during my first year of school when I can't work, can they claim me as a dependent on their taxes?Can married students still be claimed as dependents on their parents' taxes?
Yes, your parents can claim you as a dependent if you meet the requirements to be either a qualifying child or qualifying relative. However, you cannot file a joint tax return with your spouse. You and your spouse would both have to file as ';married filing separately.';
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/i1040.pdfCan married students still be claimed as dependents on their parents' taxes?
This is incorrect.
The joint return test says that married children must not file a joint return unless it is to get a refund of all taxes withheld AND there would be no tax liability for either if they filed separate returns. Report Abuse
No, if at the end of the year you are legally married, you would be filing jointly with your spouse, Your parents would no longer be able to claim you as a dependant.
See Publication 970 to see how their losing your exemption/claim for dependency will affect the educational costs/expenses
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p970/ind鈥?/a>
No. If you're married, you can not be claimed as a dependent (IRS). Someone put up an answer about in Canada - I don't know about the CRA (Canada Revenue Agency) rules.
In Canada , education credits can be transferred. Perhaps something similar exists where you are - Look for it under 'education deductions'
The Joint Return test was not passed. Your parents cannot claim you.
The Joint Return test states that if you file a joint return you cannot be claimed as a dependent unless you file a joint return to get a refund of all taxes withheld AND no tax would be due if either of you filed separate returns.
Yes, your parents can claim you as a dependent if you meet the requirements to be either a qualifying child or qualifying relative. However, you cannot file a joint tax return with your spouse. You and your spouse would both have to file as ';married filing separately.';
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/i1040.pdfCan married students still be claimed as dependents on their parents' taxes?
This is incorrect.
The joint return test says that married children must not file a joint return unless it is to get a refund of all taxes withheld AND there would be no tax liability for either if they filed separate returns. Report Abuse
No, if at the end of the year you are legally married, you would be filing jointly with your spouse, Your parents would no longer be able to claim you as a dependant.
See Publication 970 to see how their losing your exemption/claim for dependency will affect the educational costs/expenses
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p970/ind鈥?/a>
No. If you're married, you can not be claimed as a dependent (IRS). Someone put up an answer about in Canada - I don't know about the CRA (Canada Revenue Agency) rules.
In Canada , education credits can be transferred. Perhaps something similar exists where you are - Look for it under 'education deductions'
The Joint Return test was not passed. Your parents cannot claim you.
The Joint Return test states that if you file a joint return you cannot be claimed as a dependent unless you file a joint return to get a refund of all taxes withheld AND no tax would be due if either of you filed separate returns.
Straight married manly man that has bi fantasies later in life. What is going on and should I try ?
Should I try s e x with a man to see what all of these fantasies are about.
Don't get me wrong, I love women. On the street, I check out hot women. I never check out men. However, I have these bi fantasies. Is this normal for many straight men?Straight married manly man that has bi fantasies later in life. What is going on and should I try ?
Fantasies are normal. Men, women, it's all normal. I am bi, and I suppose different people could be different, but I am actually attracted to both men and women. It's pretty hard for me to believe that you'd actually enjoy having sex with a man if you aren't attracted to them.
Secondarily, you are in a monogamous (I assume) relationship with your wife. By definition, you aren't available to have sex with a man unless your wife thinks it's ok. My husband sure doesn't.
Think long and hard before you mess up your marriage over a fantasy. You might be left with nothing MORE than a fantasy.Straight married manly man that has bi fantasies later in life. What is going on and should I try ?
Have you ever read the Kinsey report? (or seen the movie?) Everyone can chart their sexuality on a scale. We all have tendencies that that swing in either direction. Some are on the totally heterosexual side, some are on the totally homosexual side, and some fall somewhere in between.
I think it's interesting that you feel you have to refer to yourself as a ';manly'; man. I suspect you used that terminology to make yourself feel better. If you're having fantasies in later life, I think it's a sign that you're past needing to announce that you're a ';manly'; man, and have accepted that what you thought was out of scope for you just might not be.
Fantasy is one way to experience things you're too afraid to try in real life. I'm not sure that having sex with a man will ever come close to your fantasy - perhaps that's what makes the fantasy so enjoyable.
I do think that when you open yourself up to experiencing all that life has to offer, you are more able to find enjoyment in your experiences. You can read into that what you will...
It happens sometimes...just as fantasies about other women happen.
If you want to try it, clear it with your wife. Cheating is cheating, no matter which sex you want to ';play'; with. Often though, fantasies are just that and should stay that...fantasies. Real life frequently turns out to be somewhat of a disappointment, or the repercussions aren't worth the experience (even if it was good).
I think you'll regret it in the future. Sometimes I fantasize about flying an F-18 Hornet, but I know if I do, I'll crash and die. Use that as some good advice. later in life is an excuse for sexual boredom, you need a well rounded woman to take care of your needs and forget this crazy idea.
Yeah, you're probably just curious. Maybe you fantasize about men because you can relate to what there body is going through. You shouldn't do anything your partner isn't ok with because unless you want to ruin that relationship, you should keep it as a fantasy.
you're finally of an age when you can appreciate all beauty (male or female) without the excess baggage of sexuality in the way. that you can appreciate male beauty does not mean you're gay or straight or bi.
My personal belief is that everyone is inherently bisexual, it's just a matter of if people actually act on it. I do think it's natural to be curious. I would watch some gay porn to see if you like it.
Probably i think everyone has a little homosexual tendencies. But it might be best kept as an enjoyable fantasy if you don't find men attractive.
Well did these fantasies come from watching porn? I mean, if you aren't aroused by everyday men, then it's probably because you're straight and just watch alot of porn :)
TRYING it is an option.
LIVING with regret for the rest of your life will be a FACT.eye shadow
Don't get me wrong, I love women. On the street, I check out hot women. I never check out men. However, I have these bi fantasies. Is this normal for many straight men?Straight married manly man that has bi fantasies later in life. What is going on and should I try ?
Fantasies are normal. Men, women, it's all normal. I am bi, and I suppose different people could be different, but I am actually attracted to both men and women. It's pretty hard for me to believe that you'd actually enjoy having sex with a man if you aren't attracted to them.
Secondarily, you are in a monogamous (I assume) relationship with your wife. By definition, you aren't available to have sex with a man unless your wife thinks it's ok. My husband sure doesn't.
Think long and hard before you mess up your marriage over a fantasy. You might be left with nothing MORE than a fantasy.Straight married manly man that has bi fantasies later in life. What is going on and should I try ?
Have you ever read the Kinsey report? (or seen the movie?) Everyone can chart their sexuality on a scale. We all have tendencies that that swing in either direction. Some are on the totally heterosexual side, some are on the totally homosexual side, and some fall somewhere in between.
I think it's interesting that you feel you have to refer to yourself as a ';manly'; man. I suspect you used that terminology to make yourself feel better. If you're having fantasies in later life, I think it's a sign that you're past needing to announce that you're a ';manly'; man, and have accepted that what you thought was out of scope for you just might not be.
Fantasy is one way to experience things you're too afraid to try in real life. I'm not sure that having sex with a man will ever come close to your fantasy - perhaps that's what makes the fantasy so enjoyable.
I do think that when you open yourself up to experiencing all that life has to offer, you are more able to find enjoyment in your experiences. You can read into that what you will...
It happens sometimes...just as fantasies about other women happen.
If you want to try it, clear it with your wife. Cheating is cheating, no matter which sex you want to ';play'; with. Often though, fantasies are just that and should stay that...fantasies. Real life frequently turns out to be somewhat of a disappointment, or the repercussions aren't worth the experience (even if it was good).
I think you'll regret it in the future. Sometimes I fantasize about flying an F-18 Hornet, but I know if I do, I'll crash and die. Use that as some good advice. later in life is an excuse for sexual boredom, you need a well rounded woman to take care of your needs and forget this crazy idea.
Yeah, you're probably just curious. Maybe you fantasize about men because you can relate to what there body is going through. You shouldn't do anything your partner isn't ok with because unless you want to ruin that relationship, you should keep it as a fantasy.
you're finally of an age when you can appreciate all beauty (male or female) without the excess baggage of sexuality in the way. that you can appreciate male beauty does not mean you're gay or straight or bi.
My personal belief is that everyone is inherently bisexual, it's just a matter of if people actually act on it. I do think it's natural to be curious. I would watch some gay porn to see if you like it.
Probably i think everyone has a little homosexual tendencies. But it might be best kept as an enjoyable fantasy if you don't find men attractive.
Well did these fantasies come from watching porn? I mean, if you aren't aroused by everyday men, then it's probably because you're straight and just watch alot of porn :)
TRYING it is an option.
LIVING with regret for the rest of your life will be a FACT.
My husband wants to apply for his greencard with me. How do I know if he married me just to get his papers?
He always says he loves me, but lately he has been pressuring me to go to the lawyer to help him get his papers. I've been putting it off and he gets so angry, so it makes me wonder somtimes if he just wants to be with me so he get his papers. What do you think?My husband wants to apply for his greencard with me. How do I know if he married me just to get his papers?
Curious, I have been following some of your questions for sometime now, even answered a few with my old account. This is just an honest advice, there is something very wrong with your relation. I don't mean to intrude, but if all of what you said is true, the least that can be said is that you are in a non trusting marriage and I can't see this ever working. On one hand, according to your accounts, he is in love with someone else (which apparently is not reciprocated). On the other hand, you seem to use the green card as a leverage on your relation. You keep putting off this decision (you said it yourself) and it would be frustrating for anyone trying to start a life with you. Even if he is fully committed to you and would decide to leave if your marriage fails, your attitude concerning this would destroy the relation. How can you marriage ever work?
The only way for you to ever know for sure, would be to let him get his permanent papers and see if he sticks around. Of course, it could (and probably will) backfire and he could dump you as soon as he gets them. Anyway, I think it is more than time that you decide, either one way or the other and stick with that decision. I hope you good luck either way.My husband wants to apply for his greencard with me. How do I know if he married me just to get his papers?
What a terrible situation for you! First, you have to ask yourself if you really truly love him enough. Second, when you file a petition for him (called an I-130) he gets conditional permanent resident status for two years. If you two stay together for two years, then you go through an interviewing process in which Immigration tries to figure out if you two really love each other or if this is a fake marriage just so he can get his residency. Sometimes aliens make it all the way through those two years married and being faithful to a spouse they don't love, just so they can get their permanent resident status. Once they have that, you can't change your mind, and he can get divorced from you and file an I-130 to bring over his sweetheart that he really loves from his own country. Maybe he really loves you for you, but you have to go with what you feel, otherwise you are rolling the dice.
not another one
Most likely the case, you sound as if you question his love!, that is an indicator right there!, A womans intuition is powerful!
You wouldn't be the first one to be used this way.
Wow. Sounds like he married you for paper; if it would be for love, he wouldnt pressure you to get his papers done; he would go his way rather than you doing the runaround. Just think about this twice.
that is something that only you can anwer. However, if you do decide to help him put he will only receive a temporary status and if you discover that he is using you, you can always suspend the process with immigration. Is important to know, his current status in the US also, you can log in the uscis webside and see with his alien number.
What if he did marry you just to get his papers? Are you going to postpone getting the papers forever just so he won't leave you? Do you want to be married to someone who just married you for his green card? I'd be prepared as much as possible for a divorce as soon as you do eventually get his green card. If he doesn't leave you, you were just paranoid. If he does leave you soon after, good riddens!
The very fact that you are asking this question speaks volumes. Something is wrong, or you wouldn't feel this way. Trust your instincts.
OK I get married a year ago. I love my wife. But with this immigration law if you don't know what will happen tomorrow? I pressured my wife to get green card just to be safe for me and her. She understood and i still don't have it ( but its long story the can denied your paperwork and green card for even small think not drugs or alcohol) but we are happy and i hope they will change the law it did not change how long time before? You have to update and upgrade laws America not just keep them. There are some laws (still valid) like you cant ride your horse front of the church at 7 AM Sunday and more and more if you are not changing the law then one day you have a big problem. (same like homework) good luck. With papers you have more opportunity. Just go to the bank and try to get some money (maybe lucky day) and if they will ask you for some valid ID you just oh I forgot them in my car and you leave. So maybe another day.
Now that you have married him, it is a bit late to ask. You do the research on a man's motives before the marriage.
If you do feel like this it could be he is using you. Just be careful! He may also just really want to spend the rest of his life with you and be scarred they may take him away. Good luck.
how long have you been with him? Have there been many problems in the relationship? Do what you feel is right. It is s expensive and long process. Are the both of you ready for it?
Ask him, then by the way he says it ask your heart and you will know
Curious, I have been following some of your questions for sometime now, even answered a few with my old account. This is just an honest advice, there is something very wrong with your relation. I don't mean to intrude, but if all of what you said is true, the least that can be said is that you are in a non trusting marriage and I can't see this ever working. On one hand, according to your accounts, he is in love with someone else (which apparently is not reciprocated). On the other hand, you seem to use the green card as a leverage on your relation. You keep putting off this decision (you said it yourself) and it would be frustrating for anyone trying to start a life with you. Even if he is fully committed to you and would decide to leave if your marriage fails, your attitude concerning this would destroy the relation. How can you marriage ever work?
The only way for you to ever know for sure, would be to let him get his permanent papers and see if he sticks around. Of course, it could (and probably will) backfire and he could dump you as soon as he gets them. Anyway, I think it is more than time that you decide, either one way or the other and stick with that decision. I hope you good luck either way.My husband wants to apply for his greencard with me. How do I know if he married me just to get his papers?
What a terrible situation for you! First, you have to ask yourself if you really truly love him enough. Second, when you file a petition for him (called an I-130) he gets conditional permanent resident status for two years. If you two stay together for two years, then you go through an interviewing process in which Immigration tries to figure out if you two really love each other or if this is a fake marriage just so he can get his residency. Sometimes aliens make it all the way through those two years married and being faithful to a spouse they don't love, just so they can get their permanent resident status. Once they have that, you can't change your mind, and he can get divorced from you and file an I-130 to bring over his sweetheart that he really loves from his own country. Maybe he really loves you for you, but you have to go with what you feel, otherwise you are rolling the dice.
not another one
Most likely the case, you sound as if you question his love!, that is an indicator right there!, A womans intuition is powerful!
You wouldn't be the first one to be used this way.
Wow. Sounds like he married you for paper; if it would be for love, he wouldnt pressure you to get his papers done; he would go his way rather than you doing the runaround. Just think about this twice.
that is something that only you can anwer. However, if you do decide to help him put he will only receive a temporary status and if you discover that he is using you, you can always suspend the process with immigration. Is important to know, his current status in the US also, you can log in the uscis webside and see with his alien number.
What if he did marry you just to get his papers? Are you going to postpone getting the papers forever just so he won't leave you? Do you want to be married to someone who just married you for his green card? I'd be prepared as much as possible for a divorce as soon as you do eventually get his green card. If he doesn't leave you, you were just paranoid. If he does leave you soon after, good riddens!
The very fact that you are asking this question speaks volumes. Something is wrong, or you wouldn't feel this way. Trust your instincts.
OK I get married a year ago. I love my wife. But with this immigration law if you don't know what will happen tomorrow? I pressured my wife to get green card just to be safe for me and her. She understood and i still don't have it ( but its long story the can denied your paperwork and green card for even small think not drugs or alcohol) but we are happy and i hope they will change the law it did not change how long time before? You have to update and upgrade laws America not just keep them. There are some laws (still valid) like you cant ride your horse front of the church at 7 AM Sunday and more and more if you are not changing the law then one day you have a big problem. (same like homework) good luck. With papers you have more opportunity. Just go to the bank and try to get some money (maybe lucky day) and if they will ask you for some valid ID you just oh I forgot them in my car and you leave. So maybe another day.
Now that you have married him, it is a bit late to ask. You do the research on a man's motives before the marriage.
If you do feel like this it could be he is using you. Just be careful! He may also just really want to spend the rest of his life with you and be scarred they may take him away. Good luck.
how long have you been with him? Have there been many problems in the relationship? Do what you feel is right. It is s expensive and long process. Are the both of you ready for it?
Ask him, then by the way he says it ask your heart and you will know
My partner needs a copy of his marriage certificate in order to get a divorce, got married in St Lucia?
He has been separated from his wife for over seven years now and they have no children The home they shared was sold and he gave his wife everything because although he left her for me, he has a conscience! His wife, however, has claimed that she burnt the certificate and our local registry office say he has to contact St Lucia. We have tried this but got nowhere fast, can anybody advise us please?My partner needs a copy of his marriage certificate in order to get a divorce, got married in St Lucia?
write to them again or email themMy partner needs a copy of his marriage certificate in order to get a divorce, got married in St Lucia?
He sounds like a really ethical man. He'll probably leave you eventually. Anyway, you'll always wonder if he's cheating, won't you?
Write to The Registrar, Registrar of Civil Status, Castries, St. Lucia. They do not use a postal code. The int'l area code is 758.
Have you contacted the local registrar where he got married? They have to hold a copy of the cert.
contact the dept of vital stats. in st. lucia they will charge a fee but you can get it.
being a homewrecker doesnt bring you good kharma....
write to them again or email themMy partner needs a copy of his marriage certificate in order to get a divorce, got married in St Lucia?
He sounds like a really ethical man. He'll probably leave you eventually. Anyway, you'll always wonder if he's cheating, won't you?
Write to The Registrar, Registrar of Civil Status, Castries, St. Lucia. They do not use a postal code. The int'l area code is 758.
Have you contacted the local registrar where he got married? They have to hold a copy of the cert.
contact the dept of vital stats. in st. lucia they will charge a fee but you can get it.
being a homewrecker doesnt bring you good kharma....
How many on this site was or is married to a military person?
I was an officer's wife in Vietnam and I have a brother is now a retired military officer with agent orange which is a form of cancerfrom Vietnam war.I have an officer son in law who was crushed durning the bomb in dc 9/11 {I was in vietnam 18 months as that is';'; state dept tours';';';How many on this site was or is married to a military person?
My husband is a Blackhawk pilot and I work in flt ops. We volunteered to go to Iraq and just returned earlier this year.
My father is a Vietnam vet and my grandfather also served.How many on this site was or is married to a military person?
I was in the U.S. Army for 4 years. My husband was also in the Army. That is where we met. My brother is an officer in the Army now and stationed in Iraq. My father was A.F, his father was Army and my mom's father was in the Navy.
Celebrating 19 years in 6 days! Now, actually together married time... we all know that's a different story! LOL
No, i have not married to military person.
For the kids out there who might be taking a history exam....Agent Orange is not a form of cancer. It is a chemical used in Vietnam for removing foliage which is linked to causing some form of cancers and other abnormalities.
Yes, my husband retired from the Air Force a few years ago. I was also in the Air Force more than 20 years ago, and that's where we met.
I was in the service, my husband was in and went on to be an officer. My brother (Vietnam vet) died of the agent orange cancer too.
YES, I am a mil. spouse. Fortunately (for how much I love my husband) and unfortunately (this war is taking too many lives for nothing) he's in the service.
I was in, I was raised in the military, I married a man in the military. Everyone in my family served in one branch or another.
I'm sorry about your brother and your son in law.
Blessings to you
im a proud army wife
he is deployed to iraq now, kawit last time
My husband is a Blackhawk pilot and I work in flt ops. We volunteered to go to Iraq and just returned earlier this year.
My father is a Vietnam vet and my grandfather also served.How many on this site was or is married to a military person?
I was in the U.S. Army for 4 years. My husband was also in the Army. That is where we met. My brother is an officer in the Army now and stationed in Iraq. My father was A.F, his father was Army and my mom's father was in the Navy.
Celebrating 19 years in 6 days! Now, actually together married time... we all know that's a different story! LOL
No, i have not married to military person.
For the kids out there who might be taking a history exam....Agent Orange is not a form of cancer. It is a chemical used in Vietnam for removing foliage which is linked to causing some form of cancers and other abnormalities.
Yes, my husband retired from the Air Force a few years ago. I was also in the Air Force more than 20 years ago, and that's where we met.
I was in the service, my husband was in and went on to be an officer. My brother (Vietnam vet) died of the agent orange cancer too.
YES, I am a mil. spouse. Fortunately (for how much I love my husband) and unfortunately (this war is taking too many lives for nothing) he's in the service.
I was in, I was raised in the military, I married a man in the military. Everyone in my family served in one branch or another.
I'm sorry about your brother and your son in law.
Blessings to you
im a proud army wife
he is deployed to iraq now, kawit last time
Will ghosts get mad at sims who are married to their relative?
because b4 my sim moved in i moved the daughter (of the ghost) and then i moved in a new sim. they are haunting him but i want him to marry the daughter but i dont want him to still be haunted.Will ghosts get mad at sims who are married to their relative?
No, your whole lot will be haunted as long as you have the headstone on your lot. If it is the Sims 2, which I'm assuming it is, then just delete the headstone. I'm pretty sure the ghost won't come back. Even if you don't delete it, the ghost would not be mad for another sim marrying their relative. Maybe if the sim was widowed and got remarried, the ghost might have a thought bubble with an X in it. The ghost can't do anything to the sim except for if the sim sees it and gets spooked.Will ghosts get mad at sims who are married to their relative?
Sims 1, Sims 2 or Sims 3?
I haven't tested it, but I believe not. Marriage links get severed at death.
No, your whole lot will be haunted as long as you have the headstone on your lot. If it is the Sims 2, which I'm assuming it is, then just delete the headstone. I'm pretty sure the ghost won't come back. Even if you don't delete it, the ghost would not be mad for another sim marrying their relative. Maybe if the sim was widowed and got remarried, the ghost might have a thought bubble with an X in it. The ghost can't do anything to the sim except for if the sim sees it and gets spooked.Will ghosts get mad at sims who are married to their relative?
Sims 1, Sims 2 or Sims 3?
I haven't tested it, but I believe not. Marriage links get severed at death.
Can I get a civil union or get married in a state I do not live in?
I am trying to achieve a Green Card through Marriage, but it is a same-sex partnership.
In the state I live in, same-sex marriage and civil unions are not legal.. so I am wondering: Do I have to be a resident to get married where same-sex marriage is legal?Can I get a civil union or get married in a state I do not live in?
Probably not as we had many couple come from outside of California to get married here in the short time same sex marriage was legal.
I got married to my ex in North Carolina even though I lived in Alaska and he was from California.
You may face a problem with the Green card process since it is a same sex marriage. I hope not and wish you all the luck in the world.Can I get a civil union or get married in a state I do not live in?
don't think so
In the state I live in, same-sex marriage and civil unions are not legal.. so I am wondering: Do I have to be a resident to get married where same-sex marriage is legal?Can I get a civil union or get married in a state I do not live in?
Probably not as we had many couple come from outside of California to get married here in the short time same sex marriage was legal.
I got married to my ex in North Carolina even though I lived in Alaska and he was from California.
You may face a problem with the Green card process since it is a same sex marriage. I hope not and wish you all the luck in the world.Can I get a civil union or get married in a state I do not live in?
don't think so
Do married soldiers receive housing allowance while in Basic Training?
I'm married and just joined the army and was wondering will be entitled to BAH (I think that's what it's called). Or do I get that once at my duty station and not in government housing?Do married soldiers receive housing allowance while in Basic Training?
yes you will... during bct and ait it will be based on your home of record then once you get to your duty station its based on that zip code here is the site whre you can look up how much you will receive based on the zip code
http://www.defensetravel.dod.mil/perdiem鈥?/a>Do married soldiers receive housing allowance while in Basic Training?
Yes, while in basic you will get BAH based on the location of your home of record. The rate varies from place to place.
When you reach your duty station you will continue to receive BAH - if you live on-post, it will show up on your LES as both a credit and a subtraction, if off post, it will be based on the prices in the surrounding community.
You will get it while in basic, you will also get it in AIT. It sometimes takes a couple of checks to process though. It depends on the date you start and when the paperwork actually gets processed.
Yes.
It's paid right from your first day. However, it might be a couple paydays before it starts showing up in your pay.
yes. it will be based on the zip code of where you enlisted from.eye shadow
yes you will... during bct and ait it will be based on your home of record then once you get to your duty station its based on that zip code here is the site whre you can look up how much you will receive based on the zip code
http://www.defensetravel.dod.mil/perdiem鈥?/a>Do married soldiers receive housing allowance while in Basic Training?
Yes, while in basic you will get BAH based on the location of your home of record. The rate varies from place to place.
When you reach your duty station you will continue to receive BAH - if you live on-post, it will show up on your LES as both a credit and a subtraction, if off post, it will be based on the prices in the surrounding community.
You will get it while in basic, you will also get it in AIT. It sometimes takes a couple of checks to process though. It depends on the date you start and when the paperwork actually gets processed.
Yes.
It's paid right from your first day. However, it might be a couple paydays before it starts showing up in your pay.
yes. it will be based on the zip code of where you enlisted from.
In the state of Texas are you legally married if you never filed your marriage license?
If my marriage license was signed by a pastor, but I forgot to file it, does that mean i am not legally married?In the state of Texas are you legally married if you never filed your marriage license?
well... Since you are in a state that recognizes common law marriage:
: What makes a common law marriage?
A: Three elements must be present to form a common law marriage in Texas.
First, you must have ';agreed to be married.';
Second, you must have ';held yourselves out'; as husband and wife. You must have represented to others that you were married to each other. As an example of this, you may have introduced you partner socially as ';my husband,'; or you may have filed a joint income tax return.
Third, you must have lived together in this state as husband and wife.
I'm saying in this case; probably legally married.In the state of Texas are you legally married if you never filed your marriage license?
yes you are married, but it would be best to file your document to avoid potential problems in the future.
well... Since you are in a state that recognizes common law marriage:
: What makes a common law marriage?
A: Three elements must be present to form a common law marriage in Texas.
First, you must have ';agreed to be married.';
Second, you must have ';held yourselves out'; as husband and wife. You must have represented to others that you were married to each other. As an example of this, you may have introduced you partner socially as ';my husband,'; or you may have filed a joint income tax return.
Third, you must have lived together in this state as husband and wife.
I'm saying in this case; probably legally married.In the state of Texas are you legally married if you never filed your marriage license?
yes you are married, but it would be best to file your document to avoid potential problems in the future.
Getting married: what is to do with my personal belongings?
I was close to marriage before, twice: once to James Butler, second time to Henry Percy, and it all came to nothing. Now it's real! And he is the mist influential, most important man in my country! I just wondered: I collect headgear (hats and things), and have the finest collection in Europe. Should I bring it with me to my husband's place, or should I leave it behind, and start anew - new life, new collection, so to speak. What will be an appropriate and prudent way to act?Getting married: what is to do with my personal belongings?
Anne, my dear, DON'T DO IT!!! Run as far and hard and fast as you can, find some obscure corner of Europe to hide in, and forget about all of them! Trust me, sister, if you don't, you surely will NOT be needing all those hats!Getting married: what is to do with my personal belongings?
Just how important is this collection to you? And how does your fiance feel about it? Does he have the room?
If it were really important to me I wouldn't give it up, sounds like it took you a long time to accrue it. On the other hand, your new hubby may feel like his space is being invaded.
Best bet: ask him and compromise, it's what marriage is all about.
OMG, I love it!! How creative!!
What about your romantic involvement with my distant great-grandfather, Sir Thomas Wyatt?
I believe it was very unkind of him to bann Thomas from Court and send him to the Tower, even for such a short time, due to something that happened before you met Henry.
* Kidnap a small male child and claim he is yours. Make sure he's healthy.
* Give your husband an annulment, should he ask. (Especially if he doesn't like the hats--you won't win any friends by standing your ground!)
* Beware of musicians.
If you are going to keep collecting then i would say keep the most important ones and continue on! Although if you want to start with something new, get rid of the old and go for something new!
Take those with you to your new home, as nobody else will understand their importance and eventually will be damaged. Ask your finance to arrange for a good room for storing
I wouldn't worry too much about the hats, you won't need them for long if you marry Henry. if you had any sense you'd have settled for just being his mistress like your sister.
speak to ur partner first and see what ur partner sayes about it.. if it means anything to you let ur partner know..
y is this in the history section?
Anne, my dear, DON'T DO IT!!! Run as far and hard and fast as you can, find some obscure corner of Europe to hide in, and forget about all of them! Trust me, sister, if you don't, you surely will NOT be needing all those hats!Getting married: what is to do with my personal belongings?
Just how important is this collection to you? And how does your fiance feel about it? Does he have the room?
If it were really important to me I wouldn't give it up, sounds like it took you a long time to accrue it. On the other hand, your new hubby may feel like his space is being invaded.
Best bet: ask him and compromise, it's what marriage is all about.
OMG, I love it!! How creative!!
What about your romantic involvement with my distant great-grandfather, Sir Thomas Wyatt?
I believe it was very unkind of him to bann Thomas from Court and send him to the Tower, even for such a short time, due to something that happened before you met Henry.
* Kidnap a small male child and claim he is yours. Make sure he's healthy.
* Give your husband an annulment, should he ask. (Especially if he doesn't like the hats--you won't win any friends by standing your ground!)
* Beware of musicians.
If you are going to keep collecting then i would say keep the most important ones and continue on! Although if you want to start with something new, get rid of the old and go for something new!
Take those with you to your new home, as nobody else will understand their importance and eventually will be damaged. Ask your finance to arrange for a good room for storing
I wouldn't worry too much about the hats, you won't need them for long if you marry Henry. if you had any sense you'd have settled for just being his mistress like your sister.
speak to ur partner first and see what ur partner sayes about it.. if it means anything to you let ur partner know..
y is this in the history section?
My tax form has my married last name but its legally my maiden which do I file under?
I got divorced.My tax form has my married last name but its legally my maiden which do I file under?
File under what ever is legal. If your divorce decree states your last name was returned to your maiden name then that is what you file under. If it doesn't then your last name is still your married name.
There possibly might be a form to fill out for that.My tax form has my married last name but its legally my maiden which do I file under?
File under whatever name is on your social security card. The IRS compares the numbers and names with ss records, and if they don't match, your return will be rejected.
If you haven't changed your name back with ss, file under your married name, wait a month or so, then change it with ss, then next year file under your legal name.
File using the name on your Social Security card. This will save some hassle.
When I was married, my ex didn't change her name. The IRS sent us a notice disallowing her personal exemption. This was resolved with a phone call.
You file with whatever last name is on your social security card. when efiling the irs matches your social with you year of birth and last name on your SS card. Hope that helps!!
File under what ever is legal. If your divorce decree states your last name was returned to your maiden name then that is what you file under. If it doesn't then your last name is still your married name.
There possibly might be a form to fill out for that.My tax form has my married last name but its legally my maiden which do I file under?
File under whatever name is on your social security card. The IRS compares the numbers and names with ss records, and if they don't match, your return will be rejected.
If you haven't changed your name back with ss, file under your married name, wait a month or so, then change it with ss, then next year file under your legal name.
File using the name on your Social Security card. This will save some hassle.
When I was married, my ex didn't change her name. The IRS sent us a notice disallowing her personal exemption. This was resolved with a phone call.
You file with whatever last name is on your social security card. when efiling the irs matches your social with you year of birth and last name on your SS card. Hope that helps!!
Best chicago neighborhood for young married couples?
My husband and I are moving to Chicago this summer. We come from Ohio and this will be a big change for us. We are so overwhelmed with the apartment search. We honestly don't know where to begin. We are looking for a safe and semi-quiet neighborhood where it's easy walking distance to grocery stores, shops, restaurants, coffeehouses, etc. We don't drink so bars are not needed. We'd like to live in a more ';family-oriented'; neighborhood since we plan on starting a family in a few years. Any help would be great because this search is so overhwleming!Best chicago neighborhood for young married couples?
As half of a young married couple myself, I'd say Lincoln Square or someplace around the Southport Corridor. Both are on the North Side of the city. Lincoln Square is a little further north and a little bit west. Both have cute shops and restaurants. There are also a good number of families in both areas. The Southport Corrider is technically part of Lakeview but it's one of the tamer sections (as opposed to Wrigleyville).
I'd also suggest Andersonville for all the reasons the other posters have mentioned. It's actually pretty close to Southport and Lincoln Square so you can't go wrong with either of the neighborhoods.
Single family houses in all three neighborhoods are relatively expensive (starting at $800k) but you can find a 3 bedroom for around $450-$500k.Best chicago neighborhood for young married couples?
You can try checking craigslist.org and click on apts/housing it should help you find housing in chicago..They also have pictures of the house you might want to buy.
Probably Lincoln Park/Lakeview/Wrigleyville might be right for you if you;re looking for ';family oriented'; areas. But you might want to consider Andersonville too. It's further north in the city and a little more ';hipster parent'; type of place.
all three places have what you're looking for: close to shopping, restaurants, grovery, coffeehouses, etc. Wrigleyville is a little more frat-boyish with a bar almost every 10 feet. Baseball season around there is the worst!
One other area to consider is Roscoe Village. It's pretty family oriented as well. Not overwhelemed with shopping options, but it's quaint.
Finally, try Ravenswood. This is an old school community with more mature people but younger couples are moving in.
Do a search for any of these commuinities in Chicago and you should come up with examples of housing options.
Pilsen, check it out. www.pilsen.com
As with everything else in the USA, what can you afford %26amp; how much are you willing to spend??
If you Don't want to live in the actual city but like to be in a Chicago suburb nearby i'd definetly say Orland Or Tinley Park has a lot of great resturants, great schools and is VERY family oriented. You can also try Naperville is considered one of the best towns to live in America but is not near Chicago . Its a very Nice area though. I actually wa sborn and raised in in the city, but i've been to these places and my parents recently moved to Tinley but i'm born and raised in Chicago and i love Illinois overall. I hope i helped!
As half of a young married couple myself, I'd say Lincoln Square or someplace around the Southport Corridor. Both are on the North Side of the city. Lincoln Square is a little further north and a little bit west. Both have cute shops and restaurants. There are also a good number of families in both areas. The Southport Corrider is technically part of Lakeview but it's one of the tamer sections (as opposed to Wrigleyville).
I'd also suggest Andersonville for all the reasons the other posters have mentioned. It's actually pretty close to Southport and Lincoln Square so you can't go wrong with either of the neighborhoods.
Single family houses in all three neighborhoods are relatively expensive (starting at $800k) but you can find a 3 bedroom for around $450-$500k.Best chicago neighborhood for young married couples?
You can try checking craigslist.org and click on apts/housing it should help you find housing in chicago..They also have pictures of the house you might want to buy.
Probably Lincoln Park/Lakeview/Wrigleyville might be right for you if you;re looking for ';family oriented'; areas. But you might want to consider Andersonville too. It's further north in the city and a little more ';hipster parent'; type of place.
all three places have what you're looking for: close to shopping, restaurants, grovery, coffeehouses, etc. Wrigleyville is a little more frat-boyish with a bar almost every 10 feet. Baseball season around there is the worst!
One other area to consider is Roscoe Village. It's pretty family oriented as well. Not overwhelemed with shopping options, but it's quaint.
Finally, try Ravenswood. This is an old school community with more mature people but younger couples are moving in.
Do a search for any of these commuinities in Chicago and you should come up with examples of housing options.
Pilsen, check it out. www.pilsen.com
As with everything else in the USA, what can you afford %26amp; how much are you willing to spend??
If you Don't want to live in the actual city but like to be in a Chicago suburb nearby i'd definetly say Orland Or Tinley Park has a lot of great resturants, great schools and is VERY family oriented. You can also try Naperville is considered one of the best towns to live in America but is not near Chicago . Its a very Nice area though. I actually wa sborn and raised in in the city, but i've been to these places and my parents recently moved to Tinley but i'm born and raised in Chicago and i love Illinois overall. I hope i helped!
What is the easiest way to process fiancee visa or to get married?
i have a boyfriend worked as a USMC(United States Marine Corp) we've been 3 months from now and we haven't meet yet. We only had our communication through chatting. He's now atationed in iwakuni japan but he'd been there almost 7 years. By 15th of january he'll going back to florida where he lived and he's family. He wanted me to go with him to meet his family. I am a filipina from philippines. What should we gonna do?Pls help meWhat is the easiest way to process fiancee visa or to get married?
To get a visitor visa you have to prove strong ties to your home country, that would make the officials believe you would be coming back. If you would happen to get approved for the visitor visa and then get married while in the US you can be charged with fraud because they will see it as you got the visitor visa with every intention of staying.
Your other option would be to file for a permanent visa either by getting married or by going the fiancee route..which take about the same amount of time. You may have a problem proving your relationship though because you have never met. Your bf would file an I-129f for you if you were going the fiancee route or an I-130 if you got married.
You might be better off if he came to visit you in the Philippines and get married then..might be easier to prove a legitimate relationship that way.
Good luck to you!What is the easiest way to process fiancee visa or to get married?
You can try to obtain a visitors visa on your own. There is nothing he can do to help you in this regard. You will have to meet the requirements all on your own.
For a fiance visa, you will have to be able to prove you have met in person. You will also have to prove your relationship with things like emails, chat records, letters, plane ticket stubs, photo's together etc.
~~Donna~~
Getting to meet will be the hard thing
Follow the flowcharts here
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To get a visitor visa you have to prove strong ties to your home country, that would make the officials believe you would be coming back. If you would happen to get approved for the visitor visa and then get married while in the US you can be charged with fraud because they will see it as you got the visitor visa with every intention of staying.
Your other option would be to file for a permanent visa either by getting married or by going the fiancee route..which take about the same amount of time. You may have a problem proving your relationship though because you have never met. Your bf would file an I-129f for you if you were going the fiancee route or an I-130 if you got married.
You might be better off if he came to visit you in the Philippines and get married then..might be easier to prove a legitimate relationship that way.
Good luck to you!What is the easiest way to process fiancee visa or to get married?
You can try to obtain a visitors visa on your own. There is nothing he can do to help you in this regard. You will have to meet the requirements all on your own.
For a fiance visa, you will have to be able to prove you have met in person. You will also have to prove your relationship with things like emails, chat records, letters, plane ticket stubs, photo's together etc.
~~Donna~~
Getting to meet will be the hard thing
Follow the flowcharts here
http://familybasedimmigration.com/forum/鈥?/a>
Filipino is married in the Philippines but now a canadian citizen and divorced, can marry in the Philippines?
a filipino guy married in the pihilippines but now he is a canadian citizen and divorced, i would like to know if the former filipino guy(but canadian citizen now) can marry in the Philippines without going tru annulment to his divorced wife?Filipino is married in the Philippines but now a canadian citizen and divorced, can marry in the Philippines?
The Philippines follows the laws of the country of citizenship, they recognize marriage from another country and they recognize divorce of a citizen of another country.
If you are a citizen of Canada and have a Canadian Pass Port and got your divorce there, all you need to remarry in the Philippines is your divorce papers from Canada, then you go to the Canadian embassy here in the Philippines and get a ';legal capacity to marry';...
You are a Canadian Citizen now, not a Filipino Citizen. (Unless you kept a duel citizenship)Filipino is married in the Philippines but now a canadian citizen and divorced, can marry in the Philippines?
Under law Filipinos are covered by the prohibition on divorce based on the “nationality principle”, regardless of wherever they get married (and regardless where they get a decree of divorce). With the new laws on dual citizenship I'm not sure how this will work. If a Filipino divorces before becoming a citizen of say Canada, under Philippines law they are still married, and the spouse can make legal judgements through the courts in the PI.
So yes he can marry if he became Canadian before the divorce.
No he cannot marry if he is a Filipino citizen.
However, it is likely that no check for NSO cert of non-marriage will be requested by the marrying officials in the Philippines. Someone would have to bring it up to the attention of the officials conducting the wedding.
Further, for immigration purposes, he'll have to check with the Canadian Embassy about immigration for his new bride as I belive they do a check for non-marriage and if he was a Filipino at time of divorce I'm not sure how they go about the approval or denial of the visa.
if i understand it correctly, they married in the philippines and transferred to canada and got a divorce there? though i am not a lawyer by profession, the divorce that they have filed in Canada in not valid because they were married in the Philippines in the first place. This means that their married is still legal under the Philippine law. So if he wants to get married again, he still have to file an annulment on his first marriage before having the second marriage or else he can be accused of bigamy by his first wife.
no, if he is married here then he can't remarry again unless he get annulment!
atty.jareah is rigth....
No. The country does not recognize divorce therefore, he cannot marry again. If he wants to, he has to file an annulment of his first marriage and when it gets annulled, can marry again. Sorry but this is our Philippine law. Even if he has renounced his Filipino citizenship the fact that he was married in the country makes his marriage very legal.
The Philippines follows the laws of the country of citizenship, they recognize marriage from another country and they recognize divorce of a citizen of another country.
If you are a citizen of Canada and have a Canadian Pass Port and got your divorce there, all you need to remarry in the Philippines is your divorce papers from Canada, then you go to the Canadian embassy here in the Philippines and get a ';legal capacity to marry';...
You are a Canadian Citizen now, not a Filipino Citizen. (Unless you kept a duel citizenship)Filipino is married in the Philippines but now a canadian citizen and divorced, can marry in the Philippines?
Under law Filipinos are covered by the prohibition on divorce based on the “nationality principle”, regardless of wherever they get married (and regardless where they get a decree of divorce). With the new laws on dual citizenship I'm not sure how this will work. If a Filipino divorces before becoming a citizen of say Canada, under Philippines law they are still married, and the spouse can make legal judgements through the courts in the PI.
So yes he can marry if he became Canadian before the divorce.
No he cannot marry if he is a Filipino citizen.
However, it is likely that no check for NSO cert of non-marriage will be requested by the marrying officials in the Philippines. Someone would have to bring it up to the attention of the officials conducting the wedding.
Further, for immigration purposes, he'll have to check with the Canadian Embassy about immigration for his new bride as I belive they do a check for non-marriage and if he was a Filipino at time of divorce I'm not sure how they go about the approval or denial of the visa.
if i understand it correctly, they married in the philippines and transferred to canada and got a divorce there? though i am not a lawyer by profession, the divorce that they have filed in Canada in not valid because they were married in the Philippines in the first place. This means that their married is still legal under the Philippine law. So if he wants to get married again, he still have to file an annulment on his first marriage before having the second marriage or else he can be accused of bigamy by his first wife.
no, if he is married here then he can't remarry again unless he get annulment!
atty.jareah is rigth....
No. The country does not recognize divorce therefore, he cannot marry again. If he wants to, he has to file an annulment of his first marriage and when it gets annulled, can marry again. Sorry but this is our Philippine law. Even if he has renounced his Filipino citizenship the fact that he was married in the country makes his marriage very legal.
Why do married men have to share half of everything, but not married women?
Married men have to share half (meaning all) of everything when he's married, Why does this not apply to married women? For instance, if a woman takes her husband's credit card without asking and spend like $1000, he has to deal with it. Why do married men have to share half of everything, but not married women?
Because sadly my friend thats all we are to women a bank!
They dont accept us for true value they rather take our money and bugger off!
As the other person said they are evil and selfish and have to have their own way all the time!Why do married men have to share half of everything, but not married women?
I think you should ask this question again and without any bias...
For sake of just answering your question though..If any marriage is of that sort then it's most likely not a good and equal marriage (or lack of communication among other things).
However, going off of the specific situation given in your question I would have to say that that's what you are suppose to do in your marriage. You share each others lives with one another because marriage is the loving and intimate bonding between two individuals who have agreed upon an relationship in holy, loving, and/or heavenly matrimony (in my own definition of course). Basically, shouldn't that mean if you indeed love each other and have agreed to share and merge one another lives together that it's okay for the ';wife'; to go and spend not ';his'; money but ';their'; money? See, I can assume many things by how you wrote and phrased the question (which is very hypothetical at most) and here are some ways to look at it...
*The wife didn't ask for the credit card maybe she presumed that her husband (who she surely adores and is infatuated with) wouldn't have mind if she went and spent the money for something
*The wife may have been upset or felt rushed and simply forgot to ask her husband but hoped or planned to explain it later
*The wife has no real respect for him whatsoever and doesn't care enough to ask permission for his credit card
*She may be the type who feels she has to be pampered and what better way to do it than with her ever so kind (and probably passive aggressive + overly nice + unassertive) husband..
By the way, the money spent could have been used for various reasons as well such as clothing, grocery, bills, holidays, or even a special present FOR the husband himself!
So simply put, your question is too hypothetical and lacks many other factors which I hope I have put to rest now with my answer...And I hope you didn't think this was at all ';upset'; or that your question was stupid because it was quite interesting and I enjoyed answering.
^_^ Best of Wishes! And thanks for asking this question!
First of all, he should have his own credit card, in HIS NAME ONLY. She should have credit cards in HER NAME ONLY.
This is common sense. This way, each person is responsible for THEIR credit card spending.
It's not his credit card. It is theirs. And as they are married, she has to help pay the bill, so why do you say he is dealing with it when they are both dealing with it?
because unfortunately it's a man's world and men are still expected to out earn a woman so therefore the man has to share the wealth when they split.
I share everything with my husband as he does with me. We don't run up bills that the other does not know about and we never have a deal with it attitude Not all women are as you say.
BECAUSE WE ARE EVIL AND SELFISH!!!!
Because sadly my friend thats all we are to women a bank!
They dont accept us for true value they rather take our money and bugger off!
As the other person said they are evil and selfish and have to have their own way all the time!Why do married men have to share half of everything, but not married women?
I think you should ask this question again and without any bias...
For sake of just answering your question though..If any marriage is of that sort then it's most likely not a good and equal marriage (or lack of communication among other things).
However, going off of the specific situation given in your question I would have to say that that's what you are suppose to do in your marriage. You share each others lives with one another because marriage is the loving and intimate bonding between two individuals who have agreed upon an relationship in holy, loving, and/or heavenly matrimony (in my own definition of course). Basically, shouldn't that mean if you indeed love each other and have agreed to share and merge one another lives together that it's okay for the ';wife'; to go and spend not ';his'; money but ';their'; money? See, I can assume many things by how you wrote and phrased the question (which is very hypothetical at most) and here are some ways to look at it...
*The wife didn't ask for the credit card maybe she presumed that her husband (who she surely adores and is infatuated with) wouldn't have mind if she went and spent the money for something
*The wife may have been upset or felt rushed and simply forgot to ask her husband but hoped or planned to explain it later
*The wife has no real respect for him whatsoever and doesn't care enough to ask permission for his credit card
*She may be the type who feels she has to be pampered and what better way to do it than with her ever so kind (and probably passive aggressive + overly nice + unassertive) husband..
By the way, the money spent could have been used for various reasons as well such as clothing, grocery, bills, holidays, or even a special present FOR the husband himself!
So simply put, your question is too hypothetical and lacks many other factors which I hope I have put to rest now with my answer...And I hope you didn't think this was at all ';upset'; or that your question was stupid because it was quite interesting and I enjoyed answering.
^_^ Best of Wishes! And thanks for asking this question!
First of all, he should have his own credit card, in HIS NAME ONLY. She should have credit cards in HER NAME ONLY.
This is common sense. This way, each person is responsible for THEIR credit card spending.
It's not his credit card. It is theirs. And as they are married, she has to help pay the bill, so why do you say he is dealing with it when they are both dealing with it?
because unfortunately it's a man's world and men are still expected to out earn a woman so therefore the man has to share the wealth when they split.
I share everything with my husband as he does with me. We don't run up bills that the other does not know about and we never have a deal with it attitude Not all women are as you say.
BECAUSE WE ARE EVIL AND SELFISH!!!!
Is it unusual for a married woman to have sexual dreams about a Dr. she works with?
I work in a hospital and I am totally sexually infatuated with one of the doctors that I work with on a daily basis. I just can't keep my eyes off of him when he's around and I can't keep the thoughts of sex out of my head. Am I weird? I mean, I would never leave my husband even if something could become of this.Is it unusual for a married woman to have sexual dreams about a Dr. she works with?
Hmmm
You sound unwell, maybe you should go see a dr................!
Seriously though, we drs are irresistable species, not surprised at all that you can't resist!
Wish I had people falling at my feet too (I mean with sexual infatuation)!!Is it unusual for a married woman to have sexual dreams about a Dr. she works with?
Well I work in a hospital and have sexual fantasies about 2 nurses here so it's not uncommon, although I am not married. If he was receptive, would you go there? I know that if you did and I was your husband I'd file divorce papers 5 minutes after I found out. Think about it: you made marriage vows, either stick to them or let your husband go so he can find someone who is FAITHFUL
Well as long as he knows your his one and only and go to bed with him tonight.Be carful cause you sound like you couldn't hold yourself back if the Doctor wanted to mess around.Its ok to fantasize but not lust and want somebody even if your married.
sounds like you are going to break down and just do the doctor... no will power ..... to bad .... i wonder if your husband has a Secretary he is just dying to hit.... in all positions.... wild ....
lol ............how does that make you feel............
It sounds normal to me to have sexual dreams about someone you find attractive. I would keep the staring to a minimum at work though.
No fantasies about other is human nature.
you really cant help who you find attractive or what/who you dream about. As long as you dont act on anything, its fine. You are normal
heck no!!! there are few nurse that I have sexual fantasy about. its normal, nurse.
yeah its ok who doesnt have sexual feelings for ppl they work with
Hmmm
You sound unwell, maybe you should go see a dr................!
Seriously though, we drs are irresistable species, not surprised at all that you can't resist!
Wish I had people falling at my feet too (I mean with sexual infatuation)!!Is it unusual for a married woman to have sexual dreams about a Dr. she works with?
Well I work in a hospital and have sexual fantasies about 2 nurses here so it's not uncommon, although I am not married. If he was receptive, would you go there? I know that if you did and I was your husband I'd file divorce papers 5 minutes after I found out. Think about it: you made marriage vows, either stick to them or let your husband go so he can find someone who is FAITHFUL
Well as long as he knows your his one and only and go to bed with him tonight.Be carful cause you sound like you couldn't hold yourself back if the Doctor wanted to mess around.Its ok to fantasize but not lust and want somebody even if your married.
sounds like you are going to break down and just do the doctor... no will power ..... to bad .... i wonder if your husband has a Secretary he is just dying to hit.... in all positions.... wild ....
lol ............how does that make you feel............
It sounds normal to me to have sexual dreams about someone you find attractive. I would keep the staring to a minimum at work though.
No fantasies about other is human nature.
you really cant help who you find attractive or what/who you dream about. As long as you dont act on anything, its fine. You are normal
heck no!!! there are few nurse that I have sexual fantasy about. its normal, nurse.
yeah its ok who doesnt have sexual feelings for ppl they work with
My frnd married only for 2 months and not happy as she was married off against her wish. Want to get divorced?
The marriage is not registered yet and has no legal proof. It was done according to hindu tradition. Now both are willing to get separated. PLease suggest how can they be separated? Is divorce mandatory in this case or not?My frnd married only for 2 months and not happy as she was married off against her wish. Want to get divorced?
Yes,even if marriage is not registered then also divorce is mendatory.
If both are wlaw erg to be separated ( divorced) it is some what easy.Both should see a lawer and apply for divorce on mutual consent in civil court.After hearing both court will give a judgement to allow divorce.They then can do a registration of divorce.My frnd married only for 2 months and not happy as she was married off against her wish. Want to get divorced?
If the marriage happened against his/her wish if they did not registered they have to apply through family court, before that family court will instuct to get councelling and they will give a period of 6 months if no then only he/she can get divorce. In the mean time he/she can stay away from each other.
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Yes,even if marriage is not registered then also divorce is mendatory.
If both are wlaw erg to be separated ( divorced) it is some what easy.Both should see a lawer and apply for divorce on mutual consent in civil court.After hearing both court will give a judgement to allow divorce.They then can do a registration of divorce.My frnd married only for 2 months and not happy as she was married off against her wish. Want to get divorced?
If the marriage happened against his/her wish if they did not registered they have to apply through family court, before that family court will instuct to get councelling and they will give a period of 6 months if no then only he/she can get divorce. In the mean time he/she can stay away from each other.
both are wished to take divorse but it is not posible in legally octanally law alote divorce for a court of LOKE ADALAT then you contact me i am a student of law i give you proper advise kondalu_morla@yahoo.com or 9885030185 this is my no name kondalu cal me
i believe you are kid...shaddi koi mazak nahin jab chaha nibhao...jab chaha na nibhao...have you ever thik about girl's parent jab wo apni beti ko is halat mein dekhenge apne liye nahin apne parents ke liye uske sath rishta nibhao....hum hindustani girls hain humara yahan par aaj bhi divourse lekar jeena possible nahin hain....dont spoil ur liife
Is it better to be married when qualifying for a home loan?
My fiance and I are looking into buying a house in the next couple months. Since the house prices and interest rates are so low this is the best time to buy. We have our wedding planned for next April but we would like to know if it would be more beneficial to be married when purchasing a home to get the best rates and money back on our taxes next year. If it is beneficial to be married before we sign into a loan we will get married sooner to take advantage of the incentives.Is it better to be married when qualifying for a home loan?
I dont think that it will affect anything to your loan options.Is it better to be married when qualifying for a home loan?
It won't affect your rate but it is a really dumb idea to buy a house before you get married in case you break up between now and then.
I dont think that it will affect anything to your loan options.Is it better to be married when qualifying for a home loan?
It won't affect your rate but it is a really dumb idea to buy a house before you get married in case you break up between now and then.
Should I wait to get married to have a baby?
I know in the ideal world women should wait until they have a husband to get have a child. Well my world is so not ideal. I'm 26 and I have a stable job, I'm done with college and I would like a family. Unfortunately, I haven't meet a man who's compatible with me to marry. I don't want to wait any longer because I don't want to be one of those old mothers who is past 40 having my first baby. I've been considering going to a sperm bank. Is this a bad idea? Should I wait to get married to have a baby?
You still have plenty of time - what's the rush? Maybe if you are 35 and still happily single, you might want to consider other options. For now just focus on your youth and your career.Should I wait to get married to have a baby?
You should make sure you are financially and emotionally ready for this kind of commitment. It's a great idea if you're ready for it. This is not the 1950's and women are very self suffecient, as I guess you are. If I were you, I would do it. And when you meet the man of your dreams he will accept that child of his own, if he doesn't he's not for you. Nowadays, men don't run away from the notion of single mothers like they did in the past. All in all, it's your decision and your life. Just do what's best for you and make sure you're ready to bring a child into this world and give him/her the best you can...
You have a stable job...well then what will you do with the baby while you're working? And when you're off, are you willing to go get the baby from wherever he/she is and be prepared to put the baby first and foremost until you drag him/her to the sitters again the next morning? Is this the best you can do for a child?
Sometimes we want things in life because we have an idea of what it will be like and we focus on the good things. But the harsh reality is, babies are hard, hard work. Kiss your autonomy, your free time, your extra cash GOODBYE. Of course you don't HAVE to be in a happy, loving relationship to have a child. It just helps...A LOT. Wait until somewhere is there to help and support you - trust me, you will need it.
there's a big difference between 26 and 40. I think you're rushing things a wee bit. I understand the desire to have a baby, but each child deserves to have a loving mother and father involved in his/her life. I realize this doesn't always happen, but why not try to give your child the best home environment possible?
yes it is a bad idea. get a grip woman you are only 26. what if you went and got pregnant, and then you met the man of your dreams, only now he wants nothing to do with you because your a single mother. i dont think men look at that as a quality. if i were you i would be looking for a husband b4 looking to have a child.
You are 26. You have lots of time.
Being a single mother is a nightmare at times.....none of the singles I know would have chosen it and would all gladly change it.
It's hard enough with two parents, let alone one. Yes, wait. Be patient. Impatience is not a motherly tendency.
yep, you are young and the economy sucks. if you still feel this way by age....37...then do it.
yes. its saying you arent good enough to have kids with
I don't see anything wrong with it if you are ready for it.
I am completely against you having a child if it means milking the ';sperm donor'; for child support.
If you want to be a mom, you go girl.. But make sure you're financially set to do it on your own..eye shadow
You still have plenty of time - what's the rush? Maybe if you are 35 and still happily single, you might want to consider other options. For now just focus on your youth and your career.Should I wait to get married to have a baby?
You should make sure you are financially and emotionally ready for this kind of commitment. It's a great idea if you're ready for it. This is not the 1950's and women are very self suffecient, as I guess you are. If I were you, I would do it. And when you meet the man of your dreams he will accept that child of his own, if he doesn't he's not for you. Nowadays, men don't run away from the notion of single mothers like they did in the past. All in all, it's your decision and your life. Just do what's best for you and make sure you're ready to bring a child into this world and give him/her the best you can...
You have a stable job...well then what will you do with the baby while you're working? And when you're off, are you willing to go get the baby from wherever he/she is and be prepared to put the baby first and foremost until you drag him/her to the sitters again the next morning? Is this the best you can do for a child?
Sometimes we want things in life because we have an idea of what it will be like and we focus on the good things. But the harsh reality is, babies are hard, hard work. Kiss your autonomy, your free time, your extra cash GOODBYE. Of course you don't HAVE to be in a happy, loving relationship to have a child. It just helps...A LOT. Wait until somewhere is there to help and support you - trust me, you will need it.
there's a big difference between 26 and 40. I think you're rushing things a wee bit. I understand the desire to have a baby, but each child deserves to have a loving mother and father involved in his/her life. I realize this doesn't always happen, but why not try to give your child the best home environment possible?
yes it is a bad idea. get a grip woman you are only 26. what if you went and got pregnant, and then you met the man of your dreams, only now he wants nothing to do with you because your a single mother. i dont think men look at that as a quality. if i were you i would be looking for a husband b4 looking to have a child.
You are 26. You have lots of time.
Being a single mother is a nightmare at times.....none of the singles I know would have chosen it and would all gladly change it.
It's hard enough with two parents, let alone one. Yes, wait. Be patient. Impatience is not a motherly tendency.
yep, you are young and the economy sucks. if you still feel this way by age....37...then do it.
yes. its saying you arent good enough to have kids with
I don't see anything wrong with it if you are ready for it.
I am completely against you having a child if it means milking the ';sperm donor'; for child support.
If you want to be a mom, you go girl.. But make sure you're financially set to do it on your own..
Is it illegal to get married more than 8 times?
My friend says that it is illegal to get married more than eight times/ But,she said she wasn't really for sure. So,I figured I would ask.Is it illegal to get married more than 8 times?
As long as the previous marriages were all terminated before getting married again, it's legal.
But, by that point point, the dress would be so un-white that it would almost be black.Is it illegal to get married more than 8 times?
Marriage is just a contract, not some sort of magical state of being. You aren't allowed to have more than one at any time, but you can have many over your life time.
No it's not. When it comes down to it, being married that many times just doesn't look good ethically. If someone hasn't found that right person, then they haven't found them....or they are being too picky.
No, as long as each marriage ends in death or divorce before the next one is entered, you can get married as often as you want.
No, it's not illegal at all... assuming you've been divorced more than seven times!
Illegal, no. And, even if it was, you could claim Insanity! ;)
In Utah, you don't even have to get divorced to do that.
no just make sure they divorce each time
Not anywhere in the US
As long as the previous marriages were all terminated before getting married again, it's legal.
But, by that point point, the dress would be so un-white that it would almost be black.Is it illegal to get married more than 8 times?
Marriage is just a contract, not some sort of magical state of being. You aren't allowed to have more than one at any time, but you can have many over your life time.
No it's not. When it comes down to it, being married that many times just doesn't look good ethically. If someone hasn't found that right person, then they haven't found them....or they are being too picky.
No, as long as each marriage ends in death or divorce before the next one is entered, you can get married as often as you want.
No, it's not illegal at all... assuming you've been divorced more than seven times!
Illegal, no. And, even if it was, you could claim Insanity! ;)
In Utah, you don't even have to get divorced to do that.
no just make sure they divorce each time
Not anywhere in the US
Is it illegal to get married more than 8 times?
My friend says that it is illegal to get married more than eight times/ But,she said she wasn't really for sure. So,I figured I would ask.Is it illegal to get married more than 8 times?
As long as the previous marriages were all terminated before getting married again, it's legal.
But, by that point point, the dress would be so un-white that it would almost be black.Is it illegal to get married more than 8 times?
Marriage is just a contract, not some sort of magical state of being. You aren't allowed to have more than one at any time, but you can have many over your life time.
No it's not. When it comes down to it, being married that many times just doesn't look good ethically. If someone hasn't found that right person, then they haven't found them....or they are being too picky.
No, as long as each marriage ends in death or divorce before the next one is entered, you can get married as often as you want.
No, it's not illegal at all... assuming you've been divorced more than seven times!
Illegal, no. And, even if it was, you could claim Insanity! ;)
In Utah, you don't even have to get divorced to do that.
no just make sure they divorce each time
Not anywhere in the US
As long as the previous marriages were all terminated before getting married again, it's legal.
But, by that point point, the dress would be so un-white that it would almost be black.Is it illegal to get married more than 8 times?
Marriage is just a contract, not some sort of magical state of being. You aren't allowed to have more than one at any time, but you can have many over your life time.
No it's not. When it comes down to it, being married that many times just doesn't look good ethically. If someone hasn't found that right person, then they haven't found them....or they are being too picky.
No, as long as each marriage ends in death or divorce before the next one is entered, you can get married as often as you want.
No, it's not illegal at all... assuming you've been divorced more than seven times!
Illegal, no. And, even if it was, you could claim Insanity! ;)
In Utah, you don't even have to get divorced to do that.
no just make sure they divorce each time
Not anywhere in the US
How many people have got married at age 18,19,20 and have kids?
Is it hard to start and raise a family that young. I'm 20 and pregnant, I'm engaged and we are getting married in less than a month. All of his family is giving us a hard time. Any advise, or similar stories? Already sort of mad about the wedding now we have a little blessing on the way!How many people have got married at age 18,19,20 and have kids?
in my country there is lots of girls who marry @ 18 .. %26amp; they raise a family thats very coherant ... dont be afraid of wat others tell you .. in the end ITS YOUR LIFE %26amp; THE BABY IS YOURS ..How many people have got married at age 18,19,20 and have kids?
I also got married at 19 and I am now 27 and me and my husband have been married for 9 yrs now. It has not been easy. We have gone through our storms but we have also overcome them. The secert to our success is always be forgiven.
I was 19 when I got married hubby was 18...we have two children together, I was pregnant when we got married but we did not married because I was pregnant. Yes it is hard and with family members being against it then that will make things a little harder for you. But if you both are committed and love each other and communicate than you will do fine. Life is hard at times but rewarding other times. Congratulations on the pregnancy and the upcomming wedding. Good Luck!!!
My girlfriend is married and had two kids back to back with her previous husband, she is divorced and with me now, yes it's hard, and money is hard to come by but trust me it will be worth it now, dont listen to others tell em it's your life and that little bundle of joy is going to be one of the best things that ever happened to you, whether you know it now or not, eventuelly they and you will see, dont down yourself about it
yeah i was pregnant young and got married. It is really hard but thats not to say its not do able. If you guys really love eachother you will find a way to make it work. Just remember communication is the key. Congrats!!!!
I have never done it but I don't knock the ones who have. I'm 23 and I'm ready for the marriage life and the children!
I think it is ok to get married that early, but I'm not sure about kids that soon. However it sounds like you don't have much of a choice do you???
My mom got married at age 16, however they didn't have their first until she was 30, so go figure.
i got married at 20 and was pregnant with our first child i can say that looking back i would have waited but that is just me.
all i can say is that you shouldnt get married just because you are pregnant make sure it's what you want. if it is then that is all that matters that you both are happy.
being 20 and having a child and a husband is a huge responsibility, i think that it could work if you really work at it. the main thing you need to remember is that this is your husband and your marriage, don't let family get too much involved and if you're really in love, the rest of the pieces will fit together...=P
I have been twice. The first time I was married I got married at 18 and yes we have a child. Me and him split when she was 8 mths old. He was under the influence of friends single ones so he wanted to be that way too. I am now married to a wonderful man and have been with him for 5 yrs. It can work out, it just takes work all marraiges do know matter what age.My husband is also 4 yrs younger then me. And his family likes to be in our and the others business, just put your foot down and tell them to mind there own business. Dont let his family bring you down, its your life not theirs. Good Luck!
I got married when I was almost 19 and he was almost 21. We already had a 5 yr old and I was pregnant with our 2nd child. My family as well as his gave us a very hard time about this but we were determined to do it. We wanted to give our children the best that we could as well as we already knew we were going to get married long before. It wasn't as though we were just getting married because I was pregnant. We now have our 3rd child on the way due in Nov. We have been married almost 4 years. I will say it hasn't always been the easiest but we were determined. Most of our family members turned their backs on us since they didn't want us together, not only b/c we were young but also a bi-racial couple. We made it thru and couldn't be happier. Most of those family members have come around after they saw that we weren't just getting married to get prove them wrong but b/c we were in love. I say go for it, but don't rush into it. Wait until the baby arrives if you need to. Don't just marry b/c of the baby, marry b/c you want to. Good Luck.
I do not have experience in this situation. However, I am 23 and me and my bf are thinking about having a baby sometime within the next year. It sucks for me because he already has a kid with his ex. We are not engaged but he told me he wants to marry me. Alot of people say marriage first then have a family. But you have to do what's best for you. Hopefully you are ready for a baby. Maybe you became pregnant for a reason. Just take things one step at a time and you will be fine. Do not listen to other people, it's your life, your decision. I wish you the best. Feel free to send me a message if you want to talk :)
i got married when i was 19. i met him through my brother who was in the army and stationed in kansas. he brought him home to south carolina for christmas and we met and fell in love. i moved to kansas to marry him and be with him. a week after we got married him and my brother were deployed to iraq. they were gone for a year and just got back in january. i'm now 21 yrs old and i just found i'm 5 weeks pregnant. he's from east los angeles and i'm from south carolina.
well i got married at 16 and started having babies as well at 16. i was married for 5 years and 3 kids because of it. i have been remarried now going on 2 yr and am also 5 months pregnant. so congrats and good luck, there will be alot of bumps along the way but if you are strong and that much in love you can do it!
got married at 15 and i have 2 childern and everybody was agenst us but if you just keep on going they will later see that only you know what is best for your family!!
married at age 17 and 2 months...miscarried at 18 and had a child at 20 and 1 week...there is nothing wrong with that... when they say it won't last prove them wrong!!!!!!!!!!!! we are celebrating 6 years this week...
you know what you want in life , so tune them out and go get it!!
I had my first daughter when I was 19, she is now 23 and her Dad and I are still together. My mother in law gave us a maximum of 2 years, not thinking we could handle it or anything. Don't listen to anyone, There are pro's and con's for having children young, but if you and your husband love each other, you will work it out. Good luck!
By the way I have another daughter, age 20 and a grandson that will be 4 in July, looks like my oldest daughter has followed in my footsteps, but beleive me when your kids get a bit older, it's great being a young mom.
I have a little girl about 10 months, and a engaged to her daddy, and not ony because we have a little girl together!~ but because we love each other very much, and want to spend the rest of our lives together.
I'm 20 years old and our wedding date is pushed back till right after I turn 21, he is already 23. At least this way I can legally drink on my wedding day!
:) Ignore his family, if you guys are happy, then go for it, if you still get that jump in your stomache whenever you see him, go for it. I think they are worried that you two are only getting married because your pregnant. And its better for a baby to have the parents split and never marry if they are not meant to be together than to have the parents together, unhappy and sad.
Good luck with the marriage and remember what makes the two of you happy and what you think is best for you little one is all that matters!!!!!!!!!!
well if your on your feet and have a good job a house and a good relationship then you'll be fine
I got married when I was 17 and pregnant with my first...I had him 2 months later, and a year after that I was pregnant with my second. Our divorce was final 1 year after my second was born. I was married, had two children, and divorced before I was 21...my family wasn't happy with the decisions I made, but they all came around. I had to work my *** off to make something of myself, but I am 24 now and VERY happy. I have a great job, own my own home, car, etc., have a GREAT fiancee, and my kids are awesome....it isn't easy! But if you are determined to make something of yourself and are willing to work hard to do it, then you'll be fine! Congrats and Good Luck!
i was 19 when my hubby asked my dad for the marriage thing.. he had a beer in his hand whiched helped alot.. my dad is not an alcholic. i was three months pregnant when my hubby and i got married back in 2002. my son was born 2003 and my son was 8 months old when i noticed i had morning sickness sure enough pregnant again while on the pill. my personal opinon is you and special someone have to do what you think is best. and dont get married just for the baby's sake.. it always ends up in divorce... why is the males family giveing you trouble is he the same age or younger than you? i would explain to them that if you two love each other and want to spend the rest of your life togehter tell his family that. i wish you the best of luck with your marrieage and family. BTY my hubbys family after being married to him almost 5 years they treat our two kids as if they aren't thier grand babies, however my hubby was married beofre me and hubbys mom and dad treats them kids like grand children..and now they dont speck to us unless they want hubbys and ex wifes kids to come over and spend nights.. i put a stop to that though.. what is good for one grand child is good for all four of them.. congrates on your expecting little one
My brother was 20 when he got married...they had my nephew and ended up divorcing 6 years later. My hubby got married when he was 19.... they had my stepdaughter and ended up divorcing 2 years later.
I know you've probably heard this before but you're too young. I'm 25 and have recently realized that if I had gotten married at 20 it probably would've ended in divorce. And that's because at 19 and 20 you still don't know what you're looking for in a partner. You may think you're old and set in your ways and you know exactly what you're looking for but the truth is you're still getting to know yourself. Give yourself some time, what's the rush to get married? Its so common now a days to just live together and see where it goes from there. And if it doesn't work out then you just go your separate ways, getting divorced is EXPENSIVE!
in my country there is lots of girls who marry @ 18 .. %26amp; they raise a family thats very coherant ... dont be afraid of wat others tell you .. in the end ITS YOUR LIFE %26amp; THE BABY IS YOURS ..How many people have got married at age 18,19,20 and have kids?
I also got married at 19 and I am now 27 and me and my husband have been married for 9 yrs now. It has not been easy. We have gone through our storms but we have also overcome them. The secert to our success is always be forgiven.
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I was 19 when I got married hubby was 18...we have two children together, I was pregnant when we got married but we did not married because I was pregnant. Yes it is hard and with family members being against it then that will make things a little harder for you. But if you both are committed and love each other and communicate than you will do fine. Life is hard at times but rewarding other times. Congratulations on the pregnancy and the upcomming wedding. Good Luck!!!
My girlfriend is married and had two kids back to back with her previous husband, she is divorced and with me now, yes it's hard, and money is hard to come by but trust me it will be worth it now, dont listen to others tell em it's your life and that little bundle of joy is going to be one of the best things that ever happened to you, whether you know it now or not, eventuelly they and you will see, dont down yourself about it
yeah i was pregnant young and got married. It is really hard but thats not to say its not do able. If you guys really love eachother you will find a way to make it work. Just remember communication is the key. Congrats!!!!
I have never done it but I don't knock the ones who have. I'm 23 and I'm ready for the marriage life and the children!
I think it is ok to get married that early, but I'm not sure about kids that soon. However it sounds like you don't have much of a choice do you???
My mom got married at age 16, however they didn't have their first until she was 30, so go figure.
i got married at 20 and was pregnant with our first child i can say that looking back i would have waited but that is just me.
all i can say is that you shouldnt get married just because you are pregnant make sure it's what you want. if it is then that is all that matters that you both are happy.
being 20 and having a child and a husband is a huge responsibility, i think that it could work if you really work at it. the main thing you need to remember is that this is your husband and your marriage, don't let family get too much involved and if you're really in love, the rest of the pieces will fit together...=P
I have been twice. The first time I was married I got married at 18 and yes we have a child. Me and him split when she was 8 mths old. He was under the influence of friends single ones so he wanted to be that way too. I am now married to a wonderful man and have been with him for 5 yrs. It can work out, it just takes work all marraiges do know matter what age.My husband is also 4 yrs younger then me. And his family likes to be in our and the others business, just put your foot down and tell them to mind there own business. Dont let his family bring you down, its your life not theirs. Good Luck!
I got married when I was almost 19 and he was almost 21. We already had a 5 yr old and I was pregnant with our 2nd child. My family as well as his gave us a very hard time about this but we were determined to do it. We wanted to give our children the best that we could as well as we already knew we were going to get married long before. It wasn't as though we were just getting married because I was pregnant. We now have our 3rd child on the way due in Nov. We have been married almost 4 years. I will say it hasn't always been the easiest but we were determined. Most of our family members turned their backs on us since they didn't want us together, not only b/c we were young but also a bi-racial couple. We made it thru and couldn't be happier. Most of those family members have come around after they saw that we weren't just getting married to get prove them wrong but b/c we were in love. I say go for it, but don't rush into it. Wait until the baby arrives if you need to. Don't just marry b/c of the baby, marry b/c you want to. Good Luck.
I do not have experience in this situation. However, I am 23 and me and my bf are thinking about having a baby sometime within the next year. It sucks for me because he already has a kid with his ex. We are not engaged but he told me he wants to marry me. Alot of people say marriage first then have a family. But you have to do what's best for you. Hopefully you are ready for a baby. Maybe you became pregnant for a reason. Just take things one step at a time and you will be fine. Do not listen to other people, it's your life, your decision. I wish you the best. Feel free to send me a message if you want to talk :)
i got married when i was 19. i met him through my brother who was in the army and stationed in kansas. he brought him home to south carolina for christmas and we met and fell in love. i moved to kansas to marry him and be with him. a week after we got married him and my brother were deployed to iraq. they were gone for a year and just got back in january. i'm now 21 yrs old and i just found i'm 5 weeks pregnant. he's from east los angeles and i'm from south carolina.
well i got married at 16 and started having babies as well at 16. i was married for 5 years and 3 kids because of it. i have been remarried now going on 2 yr and am also 5 months pregnant. so congrats and good luck, there will be alot of bumps along the way but if you are strong and that much in love you can do it!
got married at 15 and i have 2 childern and everybody was agenst us but if you just keep on going they will later see that only you know what is best for your family!!
married at age 17 and 2 months...miscarried at 18 and had a child at 20 and 1 week...there is nothing wrong with that... when they say it won't last prove them wrong!!!!!!!!!!!! we are celebrating 6 years this week...
you know what you want in life , so tune them out and go get it!!
I had my first daughter when I was 19, she is now 23 and her Dad and I are still together. My mother in law gave us a maximum of 2 years, not thinking we could handle it or anything. Don't listen to anyone, There are pro's and con's for having children young, but if you and your husband love each other, you will work it out. Good luck!
By the way I have another daughter, age 20 and a grandson that will be 4 in July, looks like my oldest daughter has followed in my footsteps, but beleive me when your kids get a bit older, it's great being a young mom.
I have a little girl about 10 months, and a engaged to her daddy, and not ony because we have a little girl together!~ but because we love each other very much, and want to spend the rest of our lives together.
I'm 20 years old and our wedding date is pushed back till right after I turn 21, he is already 23. At least this way I can legally drink on my wedding day!
:) Ignore his family, if you guys are happy, then go for it, if you still get that jump in your stomache whenever you see him, go for it. I think they are worried that you two are only getting married because your pregnant. And its better for a baby to have the parents split and never marry if they are not meant to be together than to have the parents together, unhappy and sad.
Good luck with the marriage and remember what makes the two of you happy and what you think is best for you little one is all that matters!!!!!!!!!!
well if your on your feet and have a good job a house and a good relationship then you'll be fine
I got married when I was 17 and pregnant with my first...I had him 2 months later, and a year after that I was pregnant with my second. Our divorce was final 1 year after my second was born. I was married, had two children, and divorced before I was 21...my family wasn't happy with the decisions I made, but they all came around. I had to work my *** off to make something of myself, but I am 24 now and VERY happy. I have a great job, own my own home, car, etc., have a GREAT fiancee, and my kids are awesome....it isn't easy! But if you are determined to make something of yourself and are willing to work hard to do it, then you'll be fine! Congrats and Good Luck!
i was 19 when my hubby asked my dad for the marriage thing.. he had a beer in his hand whiched helped alot.. my dad is not an alcholic. i was three months pregnant when my hubby and i got married back in 2002. my son was born 2003 and my son was 8 months old when i noticed i had morning sickness sure enough pregnant again while on the pill. my personal opinon is you and special someone have to do what you think is best. and dont get married just for the baby's sake.. it always ends up in divorce... why is the males family giveing you trouble is he the same age or younger than you? i would explain to them that if you two love each other and want to spend the rest of your life togehter tell his family that. i wish you the best of luck with your marrieage and family. BTY my hubbys family after being married to him almost 5 years they treat our two kids as if they aren't thier grand babies, however my hubby was married beofre me and hubbys mom and dad treats them kids like grand children..and now they dont speck to us unless they want hubbys and ex wifes kids to come over and spend nights.. i put a stop to that though.. what is good for one grand child is good for all four of them.. congrates on your expecting little one
My brother was 20 when he got married...they had my nephew and ended up divorcing 6 years later. My hubby got married when he was 19.... they had my stepdaughter and ended up divorcing 2 years later.
I know you've probably heard this before but you're too young. I'm 25 and have recently realized that if I had gotten married at 20 it probably would've ended in divorce. And that's because at 19 and 20 you still don't know what you're looking for in a partner. You may think you're old and set in your ways and you know exactly what you're looking for but the truth is you're still getting to know yourself. Give yourself some time, what's the rush to get married? Its so common now a days to just live together and see where it goes from there. And if it doesn't work out then you just go your separate ways, getting divorced is EXPENSIVE!
Can I get a divorce in the US even if I got married in the Philippines?
I am a Filipino and I got married before in the Phils. The girl left me 5 years ago but would not agree to have our marriage annulled. I am planning to get married to a US citizen soon. Can I get a divorce for my previous marriage here from the US?Can I get a divorce in the US even if I got married in the Philippines?
Probably best to ask an Attorney..Good Luck!!Can I get a divorce in the US even if I got married in the Philippines?
Yes, but you'll have to go to the phillipine embassy to have your divorce legalized in the phillipines as well.
Probably best to ask an Attorney..Good Luck!!Can I get a divorce in the US even if I got married in the Philippines?
Yes, but you'll have to go to the phillipine embassy to have your divorce legalized in the phillipines as well.
If Hillary had never been married to Bill, do you think she would have found her way to Washington anyways?
Does the cream always rise to the topp?If Hillary had never been married to Bill, do you think she would have found her way to Washington anyways?
Hillary's wonderful qualities of being pushy and obnoxious have also served her well in DC
Those are qualities that seem to be highly prized in that place
Probably because of all the homeboys thereIf Hillary had never been married to Bill, do you think she would have found her way to Washington anyways?
If each had married someone else...
Hillary was already a counsel to the Senate Watergate Committee before she married Bill, though after she'd met him and moved in with him. I suspect she would have married another politician, and possibly become Attorney General in a Democratic Administration.
But that Administration would not have been Bill's. There's no doubt in my mind he still would have been elected Governor of Arkansas. But the Presidency was only possible for him if he'd had a wife who could handle difficulties -- both his and their opponents' -- as well as Hillary did, and how many wives are like that? Perhaps Bill would have ended up in the Cabinet alongside Hillary, maybe as Secretary of Labor, or as Attorney General if Hillary were, instead, Secretary of Health and Human Services. Perhaps either could have been Secretary of Education.
Yes - Hilary made Bill. I love Hilary she is brilliant, smart, and has been marginalized by the powers that be.
too bad there is such sexism in DC.
there is a funny joke that Hill/Bill ran into a old boyfried of hers that is now a restaurant owner and Bill asked him what would have happend to Hilary if he had married her - she said '; I would still have been married to the President';
Hell yes! She's one intelligent woman who would have been a success with or without Bill. Maybe even a bigger success without him!
Yes, actually it's Bill who would not have gotten into politics
No, she would be some frumpy fat @ss lawyer living alone with 100 cats named bill!
She was always ambitious, so yes.
It's Bill who would not have gone to Washington if it were NOT for Hillary, not the other way around.
not a chance. it would be Hillary who
Hillary's wonderful qualities of being pushy and obnoxious have also served her well in DC
Those are qualities that seem to be highly prized in that place
Probably because of all the homeboys thereIf Hillary had never been married to Bill, do you think she would have found her way to Washington anyways?
If each had married someone else...
Hillary was already a counsel to the Senate Watergate Committee before she married Bill, though after she'd met him and moved in with him. I suspect she would have married another politician, and possibly become Attorney General in a Democratic Administration.
But that Administration would not have been Bill's. There's no doubt in my mind he still would have been elected Governor of Arkansas. But the Presidency was only possible for him if he'd had a wife who could handle difficulties -- both his and their opponents' -- as well as Hillary did, and how many wives are like that? Perhaps Bill would have ended up in the Cabinet alongside Hillary, maybe as Secretary of Labor, or as Attorney General if Hillary were, instead, Secretary of Health and Human Services. Perhaps either could have been Secretary of Education.
Yes - Hilary made Bill. I love Hilary she is brilliant, smart, and has been marginalized by the powers that be.
too bad there is such sexism in DC.
there is a funny joke that Hill/Bill ran into a old boyfried of hers that is now a restaurant owner and Bill asked him what would have happend to Hilary if he had married her - she said '; I would still have been married to the President';
Hell yes! She's one intelligent woman who would have been a success with or without Bill. Maybe even a bigger success without him!
Yes, actually it's Bill who would not have gotten into politics
No, she would be some frumpy fat @ss lawyer living alone with 100 cats named bill!
She was always ambitious, so yes.
It's Bill who would not have gone to Washington if it were NOT for Hillary, not the other way around.
not a chance. it would be Hillary who
If your married and your spouse dies and get married again who do you end up with in heaven?
Okay lets say your married and your spouse dies and you get married again and you die and so do they who do you end up with in heaven? which husband? or which wife?If your married and your spouse dies and get married again who do you end up with in heaven?
No one will be married in heaven.. Bible says no one will be given in marriage.. Plus it says when you get married ' Death til you part ' Once you die or either of you die.. your marriage is over with.If your married and your spouse dies and get married again who do you end up with in heaven?
Although I am a Christian, I don't necessarily believe in every bit of the Bible.
One of the parts of the Bible I don't believe in is the fact that we're not with our spouses in Heaven.
There is a contradiction: If we live forever on Earth and Heaven and two individuals are married and forbidden to divorce (unless one person is unfaithful), why would we suddenly become divorced from each other in making our transition from Earth to Heaven? It makes no sense to me.
Assuming our conscious brain continues, most of us would accordingly desire to see and be with all our loved ones - including our spouses - once we're in Heaven.
In heaven we are not on this earthly body and flesh. In place where joy is not sex between man and woman, there no one is married to another. A man who married two or three times can very well be happy with all his wives, and none of the women needn't be jealous with the other as there is no sex or marriage in heaven.
They enjoy the togetherness as if a man meets his mother or sister or daughter.
The bible says there will be no marriages in heaven. However if we are raptured together and you are still married when we leave maybe you are still married because you were married before we ascended to heaven. Meaning you current spouse. Sorry for the confusion.
Don't be discouraged by all the negative answers. There is a way to end up with both, but you probably wouldn't like to hear about that.
I suggest you check out the LDS.org website to check on eternal marriage, and how you can be reunited with loved ones.
Depends on whether or not either was Saved thru the Blood of Jesus. If both were, it doesn't really matter because we will be so busy worshiping God and in love with Him, that Earthly thoughts and pleasures will be minute. Thanks for the interesting question, hope you have a wonderful day!!
The second time you marry, that is the highway to hell. But if it is a first marriage for your second spouse, then she goes to heaven.
Only one marriage is allowed. Period.
Losers marry twice..or whatever..
Jesus has already answered this question [Matthew 22.23ff]. Basically, there is no marriage in heaven. We live as individuals and I am sure fondly recall our marriage partner(s) on earth.
actually with neither one. we are brothers and sisters in Christ so when you are in the spirit neither one with actually be your wife/husband.. a tad bit dissapointing but true
Some folks in the bible asked Jesus this very question and He answered there is no marriage in Heaven.
They asked Christ exactly the same question. He said that in heaven there is no marriage. That's why the marriage vows state ';until death do us part';, or ';as long as we both shall live';.
in heaven there is not marraiges... nor brothers sisters.. mothers and fathers... when your spirit separates from you body the spirit ascends to heaven where there is no gender.. age etc.
When Jesus was asked this type of question, he said that we will not be married or given in marriage in heaven. So I would say neither.
impossible question ... there is NO heaven .... there is NO god.
Luke 20:35 i believe says those resurrected will not marry or be given in marriage...
and it is until death do us part... so you are single forever :)
Your most current spouse
You end up secure in yourself for once!
According to the Bible you won't remember your loved ones on earth, so it really wont matter.
After all, being as there is no sadness or sin in heaven.... If you died and went to heaven to find out your family is in hell, could you really be anything but sad?
You don't go to heaven. You're a polygamist, and you go to hell.
There is no heaven. Enjoy each day on earth.
Whoever you want to. It's heaven for a reason, right?eye shadow
No one will be married in heaven.. Bible says no one will be given in marriage.. Plus it says when you get married ' Death til you part ' Once you die or either of you die.. your marriage is over with.If your married and your spouse dies and get married again who do you end up with in heaven?
Although I am a Christian, I don't necessarily believe in every bit of the Bible.
One of the parts of the Bible I don't believe in is the fact that we're not with our spouses in Heaven.
There is a contradiction: If we live forever on Earth and Heaven and two individuals are married and forbidden to divorce (unless one person is unfaithful), why would we suddenly become divorced from each other in making our transition from Earth to Heaven? It makes no sense to me.
Assuming our conscious brain continues, most of us would accordingly desire to see and be with all our loved ones - including our spouses - once we're in Heaven.
In heaven we are not on this earthly body and flesh. In place where joy is not sex between man and woman, there no one is married to another. A man who married two or three times can very well be happy with all his wives, and none of the women needn't be jealous with the other as there is no sex or marriage in heaven.
They enjoy the togetherness as if a man meets his mother or sister or daughter.
The bible says there will be no marriages in heaven. However if we are raptured together and you are still married when we leave maybe you are still married because you were married before we ascended to heaven. Meaning you current spouse. Sorry for the confusion.
Don't be discouraged by all the negative answers. There is a way to end up with both, but you probably wouldn't like to hear about that.
I suggest you check out the LDS.org website to check on eternal marriage, and how you can be reunited with loved ones.
Depends on whether or not either was Saved thru the Blood of Jesus. If both were, it doesn't really matter because we will be so busy worshiping God and in love with Him, that Earthly thoughts and pleasures will be minute. Thanks for the interesting question, hope you have a wonderful day!!
The second time you marry, that is the highway to hell. But if it is a first marriage for your second spouse, then she goes to heaven.
Only one marriage is allowed. Period.
Losers marry twice..or whatever..
Jesus has already answered this question [Matthew 22.23ff]. Basically, there is no marriage in heaven. We live as individuals and I am sure fondly recall our marriage partner(s) on earth.
actually with neither one. we are brothers and sisters in Christ so when you are in the spirit neither one with actually be your wife/husband.. a tad bit dissapointing but true
Some folks in the bible asked Jesus this very question and He answered there is no marriage in Heaven.
They asked Christ exactly the same question. He said that in heaven there is no marriage. That's why the marriage vows state ';until death do us part';, or ';as long as we both shall live';.
in heaven there is not marraiges... nor brothers sisters.. mothers and fathers... when your spirit separates from you body the spirit ascends to heaven where there is no gender.. age etc.
When Jesus was asked this type of question, he said that we will not be married or given in marriage in heaven. So I would say neither.
impossible question ... there is NO heaven .... there is NO god.
Luke 20:35 i believe says those resurrected will not marry or be given in marriage...
and it is until death do us part... so you are single forever :)
Your most current spouse
You end up secure in yourself for once!
According to the Bible you won't remember your loved ones on earth, so it really wont matter.
After all, being as there is no sadness or sin in heaven.... If you died and went to heaven to find out your family is in hell, could you really be anything but sad?
You don't go to heaven. You're a polygamist, and you go to hell.
There is no heaven. Enjoy each day on earth.
Whoever you want to. It's heaven for a reason, right?
Do both the bride and groom have to be confirmed to get married in a catholic church?
My fiance and I are getting married Oct 10 2009 but he was confirmed and I am not. Do I need to get confirmed to be married in catholic church?Do both the bride and groom have to be confirmed to get married in a catholic church?
The first question would be are you Catholic? If you are not, then you do not have to worry about being confirmed. If you are, then is there a reason you are not confirmed?
At least one of the couple, bride or groom, must be Catholic to be married in the Catholic church. If one or the other is not, there are some parts of the Mass and of the rites they are not allowed to participate in. For the most part, the one who is not Catholic must learn about the Catholic faith, and a full Mass is not celebrated. Each church and diocese are, unfortunately, different on this issue, and some are more stringent than others.
Confirmation is one of the sacraments of the church, just like Marriage is considered a sacrament. For lay people, Marriage is the highest sacrament, much like Holy Orders for a priest. Typically, the Church wants you to receive all the sacraments as a progression of your faith.
If you are Catholic, discuss this with your priest and find out about classes needed. It's not a very involved process to be confirmed. Since your wedding isn't until next year, you have plenty of time.
Good luck.Do both the bride and groom have to be confirmed to get married in a catholic church?
It depends on the diocese and priest. It is something only your church can answer. At mine, both have to be confirmed if you want a full mass with eucharist during your wedding, but as long as both bride and groom have been baptised (only one has to be catholic and confirmed), then the marriage rite will be performed but without eucharist.
Some churches are more strict than others. Some priests are more strict than others. I am sorry I can't give you a straight answer, but it all depends on your specific catholic church and priest. We have two priests at my church, and while one is very ';with current times';, the other is very conservative and very strict.
Technically no, however some parishes do require it. Talk to the priest and find out. Unless you're RC, you will likely have to do one extra class in your marriage prep course. If you're RC, just not confirmed then there shouldn't be any hitches, unless, of course, it's one of the churches/dioceses where they insist that you're both confirmed.
If it's the church just, not the diocese, you might be able to go to your diocese's office and find out a priest who would be willing to marry you anyhow, but it's unlikely, because most priests aren't going to perform a marriage for a couple from outside the parish.
As pointed out, there are some variations.
Were you baptised Catholic? If so, then your situation may be like mine.
My hubby was raised Catholic, was baptised, confirmed, etc.
I was only Baptised Catholic but never raised Catholic, nor did I attend Catholic Mass or know ANYTHING about the Catholic faith.
Because I had not denounced the Catholic Church and was planning to go through RCIA later that year, we were able to have a FULL Mass with all the ';trimmings';. :-)
The Pastor also did Confessions after the rehearsal so since I did that, I was able to have my first Communion at my wedding!
The only thing I was missing was confirmation.
How's that for backwards???
So really you never know what the Pastor will do until you talk to him. They understand the ';rules'; better than any of us and they know what adaptations are acceptable.
Typically, older Pastors are less flexible than younger ones.
Nope.
My Mom is Catholic and Dad is not and they were married in a Catholic Church after the annulment of Dad's 1st marriage went through.
Some churches will require extra classes or counseling, so I'd check in with them soon so you can get the process started so you can be married on your chosen date.
Nope. As long as one of you are catholic it's fine. I am catholic but my FH isn't. I had to just tell them when/where I was baptised and get that certificate but my FH doesn't have to do anything. As with any couple getting married in the church, we have to do the pre cana. The only difference is that my FH has to ';agree'; to raise our kids catholic.
No. My mom is Catholic but my dad isn't and they got married in a Catholic church. My dad had to go to some Catholic classes before they got married, but that was it. Maybe there are some churches that won't allow it, but I've never heard of any. Your fiance should just ask someone at his church to find out.
No, you do not need to be confirmed. However, many parishes will not allow weddings in their church unless you went through Pre-Cana, where I should think this would have been discussed. Better get on the phone with your priest.
No, but I know there is an extended process that you'd have go through in order for them to marry you. I would check with the church you plan to marry in.
Not confirmed but they other partner will be asked to take a class or two to understand the faith and they will have to agree to raise any children as catholic
xox
no - you don't even have to be catholic - though most priests require you to agree to bring up any children as catholic
The 1st two answers are correct as far as i am aware.
No. You need to be a baptized Christian is all.
everyone who is telling you no is wrong.. both bride and groom DO have to be catholic, and they both must have been baptized and made their first communion, and confirmation. i am 100% sure of this. i am catholic, went to catholic school, and just recently got married in a catholic church. we had to show the priest documents from the churches we made our communion and confirmation in to prove that we had done it.
if one or both of you are not confirmed, it's easy, just talk to the priest and he will have you guys take a few classes to make your confirmation before the wedding.
The first question would be are you Catholic? If you are not, then you do not have to worry about being confirmed. If you are, then is there a reason you are not confirmed?
At least one of the couple, bride or groom, must be Catholic to be married in the Catholic church. If one or the other is not, there are some parts of the Mass and of the rites they are not allowed to participate in. For the most part, the one who is not Catholic must learn about the Catholic faith, and a full Mass is not celebrated. Each church and diocese are, unfortunately, different on this issue, and some are more stringent than others.
Confirmation is one of the sacraments of the church, just like Marriage is considered a sacrament. For lay people, Marriage is the highest sacrament, much like Holy Orders for a priest. Typically, the Church wants you to receive all the sacraments as a progression of your faith.
If you are Catholic, discuss this with your priest and find out about classes needed. It's not a very involved process to be confirmed. Since your wedding isn't until next year, you have plenty of time.
Good luck.Do both the bride and groom have to be confirmed to get married in a catholic church?
It depends on the diocese and priest. It is something only your church can answer. At mine, both have to be confirmed if you want a full mass with eucharist during your wedding, but as long as both bride and groom have been baptised (only one has to be catholic and confirmed), then the marriage rite will be performed but without eucharist.
Some churches are more strict than others. Some priests are more strict than others. I am sorry I can't give you a straight answer, but it all depends on your specific catholic church and priest. We have two priests at my church, and while one is very ';with current times';, the other is very conservative and very strict.
Technically no, however some parishes do require it. Talk to the priest and find out. Unless you're RC, you will likely have to do one extra class in your marriage prep course. If you're RC, just not confirmed then there shouldn't be any hitches, unless, of course, it's one of the churches/dioceses where they insist that you're both confirmed.
If it's the church just, not the diocese, you might be able to go to your diocese's office and find out a priest who would be willing to marry you anyhow, but it's unlikely, because most priests aren't going to perform a marriage for a couple from outside the parish.
As pointed out, there are some variations.
Were you baptised Catholic? If so, then your situation may be like mine.
My hubby was raised Catholic, was baptised, confirmed, etc.
I was only Baptised Catholic but never raised Catholic, nor did I attend Catholic Mass or know ANYTHING about the Catholic faith.
Because I had not denounced the Catholic Church and was planning to go through RCIA later that year, we were able to have a FULL Mass with all the ';trimmings';. :-)
The Pastor also did Confessions after the rehearsal so since I did that, I was able to have my first Communion at my wedding!
The only thing I was missing was confirmation.
How's that for backwards???
So really you never know what the Pastor will do until you talk to him. They understand the ';rules'; better than any of us and they know what adaptations are acceptable.
Typically, older Pastors are less flexible than younger ones.
Nope.
My Mom is Catholic and Dad is not and they were married in a Catholic Church after the annulment of Dad's 1st marriage went through.
Some churches will require extra classes or counseling, so I'd check in with them soon so you can get the process started so you can be married on your chosen date.
Nope. As long as one of you are catholic it's fine. I am catholic but my FH isn't. I had to just tell them when/where I was baptised and get that certificate but my FH doesn't have to do anything. As with any couple getting married in the church, we have to do the pre cana. The only difference is that my FH has to ';agree'; to raise our kids catholic.
No. My mom is Catholic but my dad isn't and they got married in a Catholic church. My dad had to go to some Catholic classes before they got married, but that was it. Maybe there are some churches that won't allow it, but I've never heard of any. Your fiance should just ask someone at his church to find out.
No, you do not need to be confirmed. However, many parishes will not allow weddings in their church unless you went through Pre-Cana, where I should think this would have been discussed. Better get on the phone with your priest.
No, but I know there is an extended process that you'd have go through in order for them to marry you. I would check with the church you plan to marry in.
Not confirmed but they other partner will be asked to take a class or two to understand the faith and they will have to agree to raise any children as catholic
xox
no - you don't even have to be catholic - though most priests require you to agree to bring up any children as catholic
The 1st two answers are correct as far as i am aware.
No. You need to be a baptized Christian is all.
everyone who is telling you no is wrong.. both bride and groom DO have to be catholic, and they both must have been baptized and made their first communion, and confirmation. i am 100% sure of this. i am catholic, went to catholic school, and just recently got married in a catholic church. we had to show the priest documents from the churches we made our communion and confirmation in to prove that we had done it.
if one or both of you are not confirmed, it's easy, just talk to the priest and he will have you guys take a few classes to make your confirmation before the wedding.
Will I still get a large child tax credit if I file married but seperate?
My husband makes quite a bit more than I do and we just got married in April this year. So should we file married but separate or jointly. Do we still get the large child tax credit if we file seperately?Will I still get a large child tax credit if I file married but seperate?
You might or might not get as large of a child tax credit if you file separately. If you are asking about EIC, Earned Income Credit, you aren't eligible at all for it if you file separately.
Your choices are a joint return, or marrried filing separately. A joint return will almost surely be better for you.Will I still get a large child tax credit if I file married but seperate?
Your lower income will dilute his higher income allowing to total to be taxed at a lower rate. You can figure your taxes both ways, but it is almost guaranteed that filing jointly will be the best for you.
Child tax credit will only lower you taxes by up to $1,000. It is not a refundable credit.
You might or might not get as large of a child tax credit if you file separately. If you are asking about EIC, Earned Income Credit, you aren't eligible at all for it if you file separately.
Your choices are a joint return, or marrried filing separately. A joint return will almost surely be better for you.Will I still get a large child tax credit if I file married but seperate?
Your lower income will dilute his higher income allowing to total to be taxed at a lower rate. You can figure your taxes both ways, but it is almost guaranteed that filing jointly will be the best for you.
Child tax credit will only lower you taxes by up to $1,000. It is not a refundable credit.
Is it wrong for a married man when when getting a legal massage to insist on having a pretty female masseuse?
I'm talking a licensed, legit massage.Is it wrong for a married man when when getting a legal massage to insist on having a pretty female masseuse?
Nothing like having those stiff muscles worked on, but, how much would you really be able to relax? I don't think that it is wrong, but, I think that you are sort of defeating the purpose of focusing on what really needs to be done during all of this.Is it wrong for a married man when when getting a legal massage to insist on having a pretty female masseuse?
It's not wrong, but if he's going to get felt up by a stranger, I'd like for her to be the fattest, hairiest, angriest woman this country could produce. I'll look hotter in comparison when he's done getting battered.
Side note: It's about the person, not the parlor. Even at a ';licensed, legit'; parlor you can get a happy ending if you know how to play your cards right :)
You should be more concerned about the skill and strength of the hands and arms of the person giving the massage, not the face, hairstyle, and body shape of the person. Most people have their eyes closed when they get a massage anyway, because it helps them relax and focus on the massage itself.
Eddie, I'm sure you could ask for whomever you wanted %26amp; you'd get her! But doesn't a massage make you feel so relaxed you about fall asleep, so you'd have your eyes closed anyway. On the other hand, in this case your eyes would certainly be wide open wouldn't they?! ...:)
So long as you know that it will have the appearance of impropriety and that others will talk. There's no reason not to have a pretty masseuse give you that massage just like there's no reason that your wife can't have a handsome masseur give her one either.
This reminds me of the Seinfield episode where George got a massage from a guy and he thought that ';it moved';. Are you more interested in having a female's hands on you, or are you more afraid of what a man's hands might do to you??
No. But the results could be embarrassing.
Personally, I'd want the biggest, ugliest guy on the staff.
Otherwise, it's pretty likely that I would, ummm... salute inappropriately.
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Not wrong...we have a casino in our state that has the best masseuses and they are all good looking girls...of course, security is high - they don't mess around with patrons that solicit - they get the boot immediately!
I don't think that it's wrong. You are paying for it right? So if you have the option of who touches you, then you should be able to pick and choose without it being wrong.
let me ask you this...which would you choose? a legit massage from a hottie or a rub and tug from an average looking woman?
It's kind of skeezy if you ask me.
Does that make it okay to get a lap dance - if she's a licensed legit stripper?
No.
Getting a rub down from a pretty girl? Well, your wife should pick you up immediately and go get a room.
that is shady...why does it matter if the female is pretty or not...if you were only talking about a legit massage then it would have no bearing on how she looked...
No whatever floats your boat :)
uhm.... no haha its pretty reasonable
no. homophobic maybe, but not wrong!! :))
He just wants to feel relax.. pretty females using do that for men.
Yeah that's weird, and kind of offensive.
I don't see why it would be. If I ever get a massage for my man, I'll make sure she's a pretty little thing.
Hell no it's not wrong, I wouldn't want some fugly woman touching me
No, I have had both and both were good.
only if woman are able to ask for a nice looking well built man for one
nope
Nothing like having those stiff muscles worked on, but, how much would you really be able to relax? I don't think that it is wrong, but, I think that you are sort of defeating the purpose of focusing on what really needs to be done during all of this.Is it wrong for a married man when when getting a legal massage to insist on having a pretty female masseuse?
It's not wrong, but if he's going to get felt up by a stranger, I'd like for her to be the fattest, hairiest, angriest woman this country could produce. I'll look hotter in comparison when he's done getting battered.
Side note: It's about the person, not the parlor. Even at a ';licensed, legit'; parlor you can get a happy ending if you know how to play your cards right :)
You should be more concerned about the skill and strength of the hands and arms of the person giving the massage, not the face, hairstyle, and body shape of the person. Most people have their eyes closed when they get a massage anyway, because it helps them relax and focus on the massage itself.
Eddie, I'm sure you could ask for whomever you wanted %26amp; you'd get her! But doesn't a massage make you feel so relaxed you about fall asleep, so you'd have your eyes closed anyway. On the other hand, in this case your eyes would certainly be wide open wouldn't they?! ...:)
So long as you know that it will have the appearance of impropriety and that others will talk. There's no reason not to have a pretty masseuse give you that massage just like there's no reason that your wife can't have a handsome masseur give her one either.
This reminds me of the Seinfield episode where George got a massage from a guy and he thought that ';it moved';. Are you more interested in having a female's hands on you, or are you more afraid of what a man's hands might do to you??
No. But the results could be embarrassing.
Personally, I'd want the biggest, ugliest guy on the staff.
Otherwise, it's pretty likely that I would, ummm... salute inappropriately.
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Not wrong...we have a casino in our state that has the best masseuses and they are all good looking girls...of course, security is high - they don't mess around with patrons that solicit - they get the boot immediately!
I don't think that it's wrong. You are paying for it right? So if you have the option of who touches you, then you should be able to pick and choose without it being wrong.
let me ask you this...which would you choose? a legit massage from a hottie or a rub and tug from an average looking woman?
It's kind of skeezy if you ask me.
Does that make it okay to get a lap dance - if she's a licensed legit stripper?
No.
Getting a rub down from a pretty girl? Well, your wife should pick you up immediately and go get a room.
that is shady...why does it matter if the female is pretty or not...if you were only talking about a legit massage then it would have no bearing on how she looked...
No whatever floats your boat :)
uhm.... no haha its pretty reasonable
no. homophobic maybe, but not wrong!! :))
He just wants to feel relax.. pretty females using do that for men.
Yeah that's weird, and kind of offensive.
I don't see why it would be. If I ever get a massage for my man, I'll make sure she's a pretty little thing.
Hell no it's not wrong, I wouldn't want some fugly woman touching me
No, I have had both and both were good.
only if woman are able to ask for a nice looking well built man for one
nope
If a gay couple gets married where its legal, is the marriage still valid once they go home?
Like if a gay couple from the USA (both USA citizens) goes to Canada to get married, when they go back to the USA is the marriage still valid? Or would at least one partner have to be a citizen of the country where gay marriage is legal?
(the countries are just examples, I dont know if it's different for different countries)If a gay couple gets married where its legal, is the marriage still valid once they go home?
The marriage would only be valid in the few states that recognize gay marriage. It would not be recognized anywhere else. The marriage would not be recognized by the Federal government either.If a gay couple gets married where its legal, is the marriage still valid once they go home?
i believe that one the members still need to obtain a partnership thingy when they are in the US...otherwise i dont think the US will acknowledge their marriage. people all the time go across the border to tie the knot but they always have a partner thing in the US... i dont know whats it's calledddd! :[[[[
not in texas and other states like that, they dont recognize gay marriage from other states. as for the diffrent citizenships im not sure. and I THINk that if you get married in CA the united states has to accept you as a legitmate married couple. but im not 100% positive on that
The bottom line is it depends, some countries recognise and some will refuse. Eg, if you went to England they might, but if you went to Saudi Arabia forget it.
i was wondering the same thing myself. I think once u get that marriage certificate..its good no matter what state u live n. I know that Ellen Degeneros and her partner went to Navada to get married then bk 2 calif...so must b
Depends on the state.
New York for example recognizes foreign same-sex marriages. Texas does not.
Saudi Arabia is disgusting and medieval.
I know that if you go to canada and come to New york it is recognized.
Yes, didn't you ever see I Now Pronounce You Chuck %26amp; Larry?
(the countries are just examples, I dont know if it's different for different countries)If a gay couple gets married where its legal, is the marriage still valid once they go home?
The marriage would only be valid in the few states that recognize gay marriage. It would not be recognized anywhere else. The marriage would not be recognized by the Federal government either.If a gay couple gets married where its legal, is the marriage still valid once they go home?
i believe that one the members still need to obtain a partnership thingy when they are in the US...otherwise i dont think the US will acknowledge their marriage. people all the time go across the border to tie the knot but they always have a partner thing in the US... i dont know whats it's calledddd! :[[[[
not in texas and other states like that, they dont recognize gay marriage from other states. as for the diffrent citizenships im not sure. and I THINk that if you get married in CA the united states has to accept you as a legitmate married couple. but im not 100% positive on that
The bottom line is it depends, some countries recognise and some will refuse. Eg, if you went to England they might, but if you went to Saudi Arabia forget it.
i was wondering the same thing myself. I think once u get that marriage certificate..its good no matter what state u live n. I know that Ellen Degeneros and her partner went to Navada to get married then bk 2 calif...so must b
Depends on the state.
New York for example recognizes foreign same-sex marriages. Texas does not.
Saudi Arabia is disgusting and medieval.
I know that if you go to canada and come to New york it is recognized.
Yes, didn't you ever see I Now Pronounce You Chuck %26amp; Larry?
I heard that a bachelor is more likely to die then a married man ?
I heard that if a man never marries he is more likely to die. Is this because the body need contact with another body?I heard that a bachelor is more likely to die then a married man ?
Actually, while the statistic you quote is correct -- the salient study (the two have not been cross indexed) is whether or not he ejaculates regularly. A man who ejaculates daily (by whatever method, so sex or masturbation) is, according to several studies, only 50% as likely to die of any cause prior to the age of 59.
That may actually cause the other result.
Other factors may include that men alone are less likely to take care of themselves, eat right, etc.
Studies done of out homosexual men show no difference in mortality (once HIV is excluded) between gay and straight men. Which implies that the gender of the partner is unimportant -- and adds additional CIRCUMSTANTIAL evidence that the actual protective agent may largely be ejaculation, combined with a better lifestyle for those who are coupled.
Kind thoughts,
HermesI heard that a bachelor is more likely to die then a married man ?
There are many bachelors who live to ripe old age , including priests and the pope !! The thing that kills many single guys earlier than married is they do not know how to look after them selves and do not eat healthily . But that is not always the case many guys are good cooks and look after themselves very well
the only reason that has any grain of truth is because a married man is most likely safer overall. He has a family to provide for and wont take risks like a single man. Marriage is stupid. why spend the rest of your life with 1 person and ruin all the fun in life? stay single
Never heard such a thing! In any way, marriage is only a social construct thing. A lot of people who are not married, would still be having sex etc.
i dont think so
Actually, while the statistic you quote is correct -- the salient study (the two have not been cross indexed) is whether or not he ejaculates regularly. A man who ejaculates daily (by whatever method, so sex or masturbation) is, according to several studies, only 50% as likely to die of any cause prior to the age of 59.
That may actually cause the other result.
Other factors may include that men alone are less likely to take care of themselves, eat right, etc.
Studies done of out homosexual men show no difference in mortality (once HIV is excluded) between gay and straight men. Which implies that the gender of the partner is unimportant -- and adds additional CIRCUMSTANTIAL evidence that the actual protective agent may largely be ejaculation, combined with a better lifestyle for those who are coupled.
Kind thoughts,
HermesI heard that a bachelor is more likely to die then a married man ?
There are many bachelors who live to ripe old age , including priests and the pope !! The thing that kills many single guys earlier than married is they do not know how to look after them selves and do not eat healthily . But that is not always the case many guys are good cooks and look after themselves very well
the only reason that has any grain of truth is because a married man is most likely safer overall. He has a family to provide for and wont take risks like a single man. Marriage is stupid. why spend the rest of your life with 1 person and ruin all the fun in life? stay single
Never heard such a thing! In any way, marriage is only a social construct thing. A lot of people who are not married, would still be having sex etc.
i dont think so
Can you request a copy of a divorce decree if your not the one who got married?
I'm trying to research if there might be more members of my family and so i would like to know if i can request a copy of a divorce decree of a relative? We know that a marriage took place and was disolved sometime before the 1960's (last 50's most likely) but we have no idea who he married. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!Can you request a copy of a divorce decree if your not the one who got married?
Yes, it is a public record.Can you request a copy of a divorce decree if your not the one who got married?
You would have to ask the county official where the marriage had taken place.eye shadow
Yes, it is a public record.Can you request a copy of a divorce decree if your not the one who got married?
You would have to ask the county official where the marriage had taken place.
Do we need a special permit to get married in the US?
I'm an american citizen, my fiancee is a canadian citizen. We plan to get married in the US, but do we need a fiancee visa to do so? I live in Canada with him, so its not an issue of trying to get his US citizenship which is what I thought the fiancee visa is for.Do we need a special permit to get married in the US?
fly to nevada a get married. passport will suffice to obtain a marriage license and you are legally married as well as canada or the u.s is concerned.Do we need a special permit to get married in the US?
call the local court where you plan to get married and explain your situation and ask what you need to do to apply for a marriage license, as long your a citizen there shouldn't be any problems, you will need proper identification to apply so be sure to ask what you will need to brink with you when you go to apply for a marriage license.
Only to live here, afterwards.
Best wishes!
Actually, the person above is right if you mean a marriage liscense. Everyone needs that to get married here, not just foreigners. Different states have different rules on how to get one, blood tests and whether there is a waiting period. Nevada is known for leniency in this regard, but some other states are too.
You need a marriage license.
yes, it's called a marriage license. we all get them.
talk to your local gov't
i mean really are you so in love with this man that you will not even do your own research.
fly to nevada a get married. passport will suffice to obtain a marriage license and you are legally married as well as canada or the u.s is concerned.Do we need a special permit to get married in the US?
call the local court where you plan to get married and explain your situation and ask what you need to do to apply for a marriage license, as long your a citizen there shouldn't be any problems, you will need proper identification to apply so be sure to ask what you will need to brink with you when you go to apply for a marriage license.
Only to live here, afterwards.
Best wishes!
Actually, the person above is right if you mean a marriage liscense. Everyone needs that to get married here, not just foreigners. Different states have different rules on how to get one, blood tests and whether there is a waiting period. Nevada is known for leniency in this regard, but some other states are too.
You need a marriage license.
yes, it's called a marriage license. we all get them.
talk to your local gov't
i mean really are you so in love with this man that you will not even do your own research.
What will you do if your lover getting married tomorrow?
Please don't hesitate to answer.Please help me.What will you do if your lover getting married tomorrow?
Find a new lover. There are plenty of fish out there. Don't be fooled by all of this ';There's one person ONLY for everyone!'; That's crap. You'll have to find a way to move on from their life and to keep the memories, good or bad. You can't let it get you down, for damn sure! Go on one of the networking sites TODAY and start searching for your next lover and that'll surely help the situation greatly! Good luck!
Find a new lover. There are plenty of fish out there. Don't be fooled by all of this ';There's one person ONLY for everyone!'; That's crap. You'll have to find a way to move on from their life and to keep the memories, good or bad. You can't let it get you down, for damn sure! Go on one of the networking sites TODAY and start searching for your next lover and that'll surely help the situation greatly! Good luck!
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