Don't get me wrong, I love women. On the street, I check out hot women. I never check out men. However, I have these bi fantasies. Is this normal for many straight men?Straight married manly man that has bi fantasies later in life. What is going on and should I try ?
Fantasies are normal. Men, women, it's all normal. I am bi, and I suppose different people could be different, but I am actually attracted to both men and women. It's pretty hard for me to believe that you'd actually enjoy having sex with a man if you aren't attracted to them.
Secondarily, you are in a monogamous (I assume) relationship with your wife. By definition, you aren't available to have sex with a man unless your wife thinks it's ok. My husband sure doesn't.
Think long and hard before you mess up your marriage over a fantasy. You might be left with nothing MORE than a fantasy.Straight married manly man that has bi fantasies later in life. What is going on and should I try ?
Have you ever read the Kinsey report? (or seen the movie?) Everyone can chart their sexuality on a scale. We all have tendencies that that swing in either direction. Some are on the totally heterosexual side, some are on the totally homosexual side, and some fall somewhere in between.
I think it's interesting that you feel you have to refer to yourself as a ';manly'; man. I suspect you used that terminology to make yourself feel better. If you're having fantasies in later life, I think it's a sign that you're past needing to announce that you're a ';manly'; man, and have accepted that what you thought was out of scope for you just might not be.
Fantasy is one way to experience things you're too afraid to try in real life. I'm not sure that having sex with a man will ever come close to your fantasy - perhaps that's what makes the fantasy so enjoyable.
I do think that when you open yourself up to experiencing all that life has to offer, you are more able to find enjoyment in your experiences. You can read into that what you will...
It happens sometimes...just as fantasies about other women happen.
If you want to try it, clear it with your wife. Cheating is cheating, no matter which sex you want to ';play'; with. Often though, fantasies are just that and should stay that...fantasies. Real life frequently turns out to be somewhat of a disappointment, or the repercussions aren't worth the experience (even if it was good).
I think you'll regret it in the future. Sometimes I fantasize about flying an F-18 Hornet, but I know if I do, I'll crash and die. Use that as some good advice. later in life is an excuse for sexual boredom, you need a well rounded woman to take care of your needs and forget this crazy idea.
Yeah, you're probably just curious. Maybe you fantasize about men because you can relate to what there body is going through. You shouldn't do anything your partner isn't ok with because unless you want to ruin that relationship, you should keep it as a fantasy.
you're finally of an age when you can appreciate all beauty (male or female) without the excess baggage of sexuality in the way. that you can appreciate male beauty does not mean you're gay or straight or bi.
My personal belief is that everyone is inherently bisexual, it's just a matter of if people actually act on it. I do think it's natural to be curious. I would watch some gay porn to see if you like it.
Probably i think everyone has a little homosexual tendencies. But it might be best kept as an enjoyable fantasy if you don't find men attractive.
Well did these fantasies come from watching porn? I mean, if you aren't aroused by everyday men, then it's probably because you're straight and just watch alot of porn :)
TRYING it is an option.
LIVING with regret for the rest of your life will be a FACT.
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