Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Is forming an emotional bond with someone else while married cheating?

What do you think? Made me feel guilty.Is forming an emotional bond with someone else while married cheating?
It is cheating, it is just as bad if not worse then having a sexual relationship with someone else. An emotional bond is another far more deeper form of intimacy that should be cherished and shared only with your spouse. If you turned the situation around on yourself, how would you feel about it? I mean really put yourself in the other persons shoes and think about it.Is forming an emotional bond with someone else while married cheating?
i've been into this situation before and i really regretted it. so, it's better for you to stop immediately before u start losing everything like i am right now. u will never know as it hasn't happen to you yet. my advice, stop any bond with the opposite sex n sit down n have a talk wit yr spouse

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SERIOUSLY. Emotional affairs can be MORE damaging than physical ones. PLEASE end it now if it's still going on. I wrecked a five-year relationship with someone I truly cared about and had a son with just because I thought it was innocent until it was too late.

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My husband started an ';emotional affair'; with my best friend almost 4 years ago. When I repeaditly told him to stop, he would not...to make a long story short, we have been divorced for 2 years and he is now married to my EX- best friend.

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I am now in an almost two year relationship and love my boyfriend very much, but am starting to have an ';emotional affair'; with my newly divorced ex-boyfriend (who I don't think I ever stopped loving). I know I am not married, but am I any better than my exes?

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You can't help who you find an emotional bond with. It is just there. If you are unhappy with your marriage talk about it with your spouse and tell them about this other person. Let them know that you WANT to work on your marriage. If you feel that your unhappy with your spouse and you feel that you CANNOT change your relationship for the better then speak with him/her and tell her what you are feeling. If you are considering divorce then let them know. Now, not telling someone about his other person would be considered cheating and inconsiderate. Do what you feel would be in the best interest of you AND your spouse. Good Luck!
It all depends on your definition of an ';Emotional bond';.





If you want to sleep with your other other or get more intimate, then it's a good idea to back off.


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If you're maintaining a friendly distance with a reasonable minimum of romance, even then you're still in the clear.








I have a similar version of this in my love life. The ONLY difference is that I'm not married. So I know a thing or two about this.
you mean with somebody of different gender right,WHY do you feel the need to BOND with this third person,seems to me you cant with hubby.When you are sure you didnt do anything wrong then why feel guilty or do you WANT it to take it further then you should.Bottomline is this person worth it to possible ruin your marriage
For someone to say it's worse than sex is dumb. sometimes you can't help the way you feel. it becomes a problem when you tempt yourself and act on these emotions. everyone gets tempted, but if you prevail then you should be proud of yourself and for you simply feeling gulity (pending that you hadn't acted on these emotions) then you should give yourself a pat on the back.
Have feelings for another while you're currently married is fine. However, acting on those feelings is not. Perhaps you should question your marriage. Are you seeking out emotional bonds with other males because you are unhappy with your husband?
Absolutely it is. If you can't do it, say it and share your feelings with your spouse about it, it's cheating.





Consider how you would feel if you found out your spouse had an emotional bond with someone else. Would that be considered cheating in your heart?
Yes it is cheating, it's called emotional cheating. Believe me if the other two people in this relationship found out they'd be hurt and angry. You need to find someone else to talk to end the relationship.
It is called an emotional affair. Most affairs start out this way. Technically, you are not cheating, just working your way up to it.
if its of the opposite sex or same for that fact yes. when your married you can enjoy friends that's all it can be or it's cheating
The advice I have to give u on this is: Watch your thoughts, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your character.
well lust is cheating if you see this person as you would your wife then that is cheating lusting in the heart. so yes you are a cheater.
Of course it is. Even worse than casual sex.
It sure is!
no.


but if you have had sex or you guys are going to have sex...then yes.

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