Saturday, August 21, 2010

Would she still be sinning even if she is married when this situation presents itself?

A married couple live together happily, but the husband is sent away to Iraq. Would the wife be wrong to masterbate since her husband is not home, or call him and talk dirty to him on the phone?





What if the husband died, his best friend came about and lets say, helped her during this rough time and they fell in love. Would she be sinning or because the husband is dead, she is right to fall in love again?





I learn something new each and everyday... Thanks in advance.Would she still be sinning even if she is married when this situation presents itself?
It's absurd to think she's wrong to masturbate while he's away. And if they can talk sexuallly (it's not 'dirty' ... well, not unless you're doing it right) then so much the better; if that's the only way they can enjoy each other, then go for it.





If her husband dies, then she is free to marry again. If she chooses to have sex before remarriage, that's on her conscience; the bible is much less clear about it than many would like you to think. But yes, of course she can fall in love again.Would she still be sinning even if she is married when this situation presents itself?
The Bible actually says nothing about masturbation specifically. It DOES say that you aren't permitted to lust after anyone who isn't your spouse, but so long as you can avoid that, the christian deity apparently doesn't give a damn.
Why should she live a life of misery because an ancient cave dweller's book tells her to? In this situation she is doing what is perfectly normal, and not hurting anyone at all.
So what is your question??? Do you want to know if masturbating and sleeping around a sin? Ehhh I don't know, probably but every ones doing it.
Masturbating would be sinning.





She can fall in love again, but she needs to say sexually pure until she's married again.

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